I, personally, don't agree with Forest Gump's saying - "Life is like a box of chocolates, you
never know what you'll get". Don't you find it ironic ?? Well, at least I do. Read that again.
"Life is like a box of chocolates". OK, we can understand this line but what about "you
never know what you'll get" ?? It's already stated that "life is like a box of chocolates",
so, we knew that we'll get chocolates after all. Who says "you never know what you'll
get" ??? Now, isn't it ironical ??? Another point I must stress is - life isn't fair. What do I
mean by that ?? Here are some examples I can cite PURELY from my point of view :

Looks - some have good looks, some are average looking and there's also the not so
good-looking. Besides that, there's always those who've bad or poor complexion (I'm one
of them *sigh*) and there's the flawless ones. Damn, do I envy them or what. But what to
do ?? Face the facts boy. From what I know or think (please don't get angry if you
disagree), girls usually like guys to be macho and good-looking. Likewise, as a guy myself,
I definitely prefer pretty or sweet-looking gals. Though the first appearance is very
important, one really can't judge a book by it's cover. We'll never know what's inside until
we open and read it. Sometimes, the title doesn't even match with the book's contents. So,
does that mean a pretty lady always get the prince charming ??? Not really, at least not
quite true in Singapore. I've seen very beautiful girls holding hands or hugging around
a not-very-handsome-looking guy. As one of those, I cursed myself for not having a girl
like that (though I'm the quiet and shy type). From my opinion (actually from one of my
friends), that guy must be god-damn rich (too bad I'm not) or something. Maybe it's
voodoo too, who knows. Heehee. Vice versa, I happen to see a handsome-looking guy
having a not-so-pretty gal as his girlfriend. Well, I'm going to speak really frankly. Don't
know whether there's anything wrong with that guy's eyes or what. That girl is really
blessed to have him as a boyfriend.

Physical appearances - this is in terms of height and weight. Not everyone wants to be
short, at least I know. I haven't really heard of someone who actually wants to become
shorter. Tell me if you're. Short isn't anything to be inferior of. It's just others' thinking. If
one is short, try fitting into one of those high-heeled shoes (quite popular nowadays among
girls). Coming to weight. The weigh of a person can be generic. It can be from the family's
genes that makes one plump or skinny. If it's due to genes, I doubt much could be done to
improve the situation. At most, one could try taking those diet drinks or go to beauty salon
for dieting treatments. No body wants to be too skinny or fat (that's what I think). If you
disagree, let me know.

Voice - For my own preference, I prefer girls with "low" voice. It's so sexy and mature that
it simply drives me wild. Not to say that I despise those sweet and cute ones. I find them
rather appealing too but not as much as the low ones. As for girls, I don't have the slightest
idea what they prefer. So if any of you want to let me know, please mail me of leave it under
the comments at the guestbook. For your knowledge, I've a rather low-and-feminine voice
(my friends told me). On one occasion I left a message on the voice mail for my friends.
When they listened, they said I'm trying to seduce them or something. Oh no don't get me
wrong. Basically I'm not into gay stuffs. I'm glad to say that I still have liking for females.
So, don't be bothered by ones voice. You guys should, at least, be happy because you still
can talk unlike some others... I also admire their fighting spirit and determination.
Their strong-will can never be replaced by any other thing under my heart. I happened to
quote this from Reader's Digest - Don't complain about your unfashioned shoes until
you saw the guy with no legs (no offences).

Self-motivation - it's sometimes quite annoying to see someone doing something, which one
has longed for, easily. Take me as an example. I'd always wanted to dunk since 14 (that's
when I first watched NBA). Those guys sure can fly. Though I wanted to dunk, I'm
embarrassed to say that I'd not done anything worth while for reaching my aim. Therefore,
I appreciate and admire those who have strong will and self-motivation. They can
push themselves to somewhere where not everyone could reach. Different people have
different self-motivation ability. Some have better and some have less (I believe I belong
to the latter). Those who can motivate themselves well will usually propel into a world of
challenges and excitements because they always have to think how to solve this and that.
Not to leave out the fact that one's life is going to be dull if oneself doesn't have
self-motivation.

Personal attitude - not everyone is talkative or something. Sad to know that there's always
a group of people with opposite personality (and I'm one of them). Those quiet ones will
usually remain quiet whenever they are. Some are at a loss of words when meeting a lady
(hmm...I think I fits into this). Talkative ones will usually attract more attention from the
public and, thus (solely my opinion), have more girls to like. Why ?? Mainly because of
their daily stupid jokes or something. It's good to have these people around because they
liven up the atmosphere when we're bored or tired. Their existence is sometimes quite
important due to the fact that they can help those less talkative ones to start talking too !!
Quiet doesn't mean arrogant (at least I'm not). Some people always thought that quiet
people are full of arrogance and thus despise them which I totally DISAGREE (because
I'd experience it before). When you look into ones eyes, let's say a guy looking at a gal,
and she doesn't look back, it simply doesn't mean that she's not interested in making
friends with you nor is she arrogant (I must also say that it might be true sometimes).
Being an optimist, I think she might be blur (didn't notice you) or her friends might be
talking to her at that time (that's for me). Try to look around and observe first. Don't jump
into conclusions so fast. Likewise (I'm really not trying to be sadistic), those who appeared
friendly and cheerful does not imply that he is not arrogant or have some other bad points.
Therefore, generally speaking, I still believe the old saying "Do not judge a book by it's
covers".

Attitude towards others - Not so long ago, I was trying to get a peripheral for my PC. I went
to a building which have what I was looking for. Don't know whether I'm over-sensitive or
what, I find that they're not bothered to serve me at all (maybe because I was too casually
dressed - sandals, shorts, T-shirt). On the other hand, when a well-dressed (shirt and tie)
person came in, they went to greet him with smiles and stuff. I mean, how could they do
this ?!?! I was furious and walked right out of the shop immediately. I'm not being petty
or something. Just that I can't stand their attitude towards people. Rugged looking doesn't
mean they've no money or what. Nor is a well-dressed person a more potential customer.
Well, I'm not trying to say bad things on the well-dressed group. Actually, they really are
a higher percentage of purchasers compared to the casual-dressed. But I'm not trying to
piss off those shop-keepers. Some of them are friendly and nice. Now that's what I call
smart businessman, taking everyone to be his potential customer.

For conclusion: Nothing in this world is fair. Basically nothing. So whoever you are, whatever you like, just be YOURSELF !!! Don't ever let what others' thoughts or says bother you because you're unique.

This context is simply my very own experiences (though not very much) and opinions. Forgive me if I'd said or done anything that makes or feel unhappy or hatred.

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