#1 - find a cock, any cock will do and place yourself before it, preferably naked and on your knees.  most men find this position very erotic because they like their women to be submissive.  ask permission to begin, this gives them a feeling of control and power and i have found that the more powerful they feel, the more powerful the explosion of cum will be.

#2 - once permission has been granted, begin by kissing up their thighs, being especially careful to avoid his cock at this point.  carefully massage his balls as you kiss up and down his thighs. once you hear his gentle moans, then it is time to kiss the tip of his cock. by this time, his cock should be at least semi-erect, kiss all around the head, paying very special attention to the very tip.  then begin kissing the shaft.  once you have kissed the entire shaft, slowly and very teasingly, take his cock deep into your mouth, inch by inch.  do not take it all at once, that ruins the pleasure.

#3 - once you have swallowed his entire shaft, be sure to swirl your tongue around his shaft while you gently close your lips around him.  licking him while he is in your mouth may take some practice, but it worth the effort.  you will soon hear his moans grow louder and his breathing increase.

#4 - now it is time to begin sucking him.  close your lips tightly around the base of his cock and begin moving your head up and down, sliding him deeper and deeper down your throat as you swallow his cock.  be sure to massage his balls while you do this. also, depending on both of you, you might want to think about sliding 1 finger into his ass while you do this.  be gentle while doing this because if it is the first time, it could be painful.  be sure to have plenty of lubrication for this.

#5 - increase the speed and tightness of your lips.  you will soon feel his cock begin to thicken and twitch in your mouth.  this is the time to really suck hard and fast, taking him as deep down your throat as you possibly can.  if you are doing it right, he will grab your head, hold it down and begin fucking your mouth.  let him do this, as you concentrate on his hard cock filling your mouth.

#6 - as you feel the first shot of cum enter your mouth, gently but firmly squeeze his balls, sending every drop of cum up his shaft and into your mouth.  wrap your lips as tight as you can around his cock and suck hard but slowly, milking every drop of his cum from his cock and into your mouth.

#7 - when the last of his cum has filled your mouth and you have swallowed this wonderful gift, slowly slide him from your mouth, being sure to lick every last drop of cum.  then repeat step 2, ending by kissing him deeply on his lips, letting him taste the sweetness he has given you.

if you have followed all of these steps, he should be covered in goose bumps, shivering and his toes curled.