I feel that "The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child" is an ominous document. How better to change a country than to start with the children (isn't that what Hitler did)? Rewrite history, convince the children that they should think "internationally", change the educational system so that they are "dumbing down" the children rather than increasing their learning. I heard a very profound statement on TV just last night; it was a commercial about teachers and on the screen was a teacher stating (and I'm paraphrasing this) "I can change the world through my job of teaching the children." (Be sure to check out the information in my education section, the "education reform" is not all its cracked up to be)
"and
brought up in the spirit of the ideals proclaimed in the Charter
of the United Nations,"
Well that's ok; as long as YOUR ideals are in
harmony with those in the "Charter of the United Nations", but suppose
they aren't? What then? Will you be forced to teach your child
those ideals, even though you may not like them or disagree with them?
Will you face charges in court?
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"
including appropriate legal protection, before as well as after birth"
Hmmm, GOOD WORDING here!!! Recognizes that
a fetus is more than just a piece of tissue, that it is in fact a baby,
a child. (at least that is the way I read it) OK so if that is correct
then what happens in countries where they do not recognize the baby as
a living being and those that have legalized abortion? Are they in
violation of this clause?
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"the
best interests of the child shall be a primary consideration"
According to whom? Lets face it folks we
don't all agree on what is in 'the best interests of the child'.
What I see as being good for my child you may not think is good for your
child. Just as a side note; I had 7 children, none of them were ever
put on a feeding schedule by me, I found that by and large they usually
put themselves on a 3 or 4 hour schedule but I was criticized by many because
they thought that what I was doing "wasn't good for the baby" and that
I was letting him/her control me rather than the other way around.
Or the fact that I kept my youngest out
of school for most of her kindergarten year because of a severely broken
collarbone and some emotional problems she was having that we eventually
found out were due to a learning disability. Again, I wasn't doing
what was in the 'best interest' of my child.... turned out in the end that
I HAD done the best thing for her. So who determines what is best
for the child?
In another instance, I had moved
from Pennsylvania to New Jersey and about a month into the school year
I was summoned to the school to discuss my oldest son, they wanted to take
him out of first grade and put him in kindergarten because he wasn't keeping
pace like they thought he should. I should also note that this was
a brand new community and the class that he was in was filled with all
the children that had come from different school districts (obviously they
were all going through an adjustment period at the same time). I
argued that I didn't want him placed in kindergarten after only a month
in the class and that they should give it a little more time, I knew my
child and felt he would keep pace in a few weeks. The principal told
me point blank that 'we know your child better than you do and we're placing
him in a kindergarten class'. I explained to the principal that knowing
my son as I did it was giving him the 'easy way out' and that would have
a lasting effect on him. Two days later my son was in
kindergarten (much to his glee), to this day he tries to take the easy
way out of any given situation. I knew that my son could do things,
he just preferred not to, and if he was pushed he could do what he had
to do and do it well.
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"undertake
to ensure the child such protection and care as is necessary for his or
her well-being, taking into account the rights and duties of his or her
parents, legal guardians, or other individuals legally responsible for
him or her,"
Whoa, hold on here. NOW they're going to
tell me what my 'rights and duties' are as a parent???? I don't think
so. MOST (granted not all) parents already give their children the
protection and care necessary for the child's well-being.
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"The
child shall be registered immediately after birth"
Gee I wonder why....now could it be for 'tracking'
purposes? I've heard of cases here where they wouldn't let the parents
take the baby home from the hospital until they gave it a name for the
birth certificate. What happens if you haven't decided on a name?
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"States
Parties shall ensure that a child shall not be separated from his or her
parents against their will, except when competent authorities subject to
judicial review determine, in accordance with applicable law and procedures,
that such separation is necessary for the best interests of the child.
Such determination may be necessary in a particular case such as one involving
abuse or neglect of the child by the parents, or one where the parents
are living separately and a decision must be made as to the child's place
of residence."
I don't like the sounds of this one at all.
Here we go again with someone else determining what is 'in the best interests'
of my child!!!! And according to whose standards? My standards
may be entirely different from that of the state's, so does that make mine
wrong and their's 'right'?
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"1.
The child shall have the right to freedom of expression; this right shall
include freedom to seek, receive and impart information and ideas of all
kinds, regardless of frontiers, either orally, in writing or in print,
in the form of art, or through any other media of the child's choice.
2. The exercise of
this right may be subject to certain restrictions, but these shall only
be such as are provided by law and are necessary:
(a) For respect of
the rights or reputations of others; or
(b) For the protection
of national security or of public order (ordre public), or of public health
or morals."
Oh isn't this just dandy. Picture this one;
your child is using his/her 'freedom of expression' in a way YOU deem to
be wrong and you try to make him/her stop doing it. What does your
child do? Naturally, he/she takes you to court. Remember those
children 'divorcing' their parents cases a while back? There isn't
one mention here about a parents wishes being one of the 'restrictions',
not one mention, what happens to the parents rights on this one?
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"Freedom
to manifest one's religion or beliefs may be subject only to such limitations
as are prescribed by law and are necessary to protect public safety, order,
health or morals, or the fundamental rights and freedoms of others."
Gee I see no mention of 'child' here.
Hmmmm, and here I have a question (again); what the heck does 'limitations
as are prescribed by law' mean in reference to 'freedom to manifest one's
religion or beliefs'?
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"development
of appropriate guidelines for the protection of the child from information
and material injurious to his or her well-being, bearing in mind the provisions
of articles 13 and 18."
Who is going to develop these 'appropriate guidelines'?
The parent? I think not the way this is written it looks to me like
the UN (or the 'State') is going to develop these guidelines. Now
what happens if they see something as 'appropriate' that you do not, or
vice versa? Who (what) is the determining factor? The parent
or the state?
For example, when they first started teaching
'sex education' in the schools I did not want my children learning it through
the school as I wanted to teach them myself according to my beliefs and
standards, BUT my son was placed in the class anyhow (at that time they
still required parental permission to put your child in that class, and
I had not given mine). One day my son (who wasn't the greatest student
in the world) came home announcing that he had gotten an "A" on a test.
As an excited parent I asked to see the test and was appalled to see that
it was an explicit test on the menstrual cycle and reproductive process
of the female. I called the school the next day demanding that they
remove him from that class immediately....they said that the only other
option for my son during that period would be for him to go to the library....I
said 'good, send him to the library'. They had determined that the
class was 'good for the child' and the only way for me to exert MY wishes
was to protest vehemently!! At the age of 12 my son knew as much
about my body as I did.
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"2.
For the purpose of guaranteeing and promoting the rights set forth in the
present Convention, States Parties shall render appropriate assistance
to parents and legal guardians in the performance of their child-rearing
responsibilities and shall ensure the development of institutions, facilities
and services for the care of children.
3. States Parties
shall take all appropriate measures to ensure that children of working
parents have the right to benefit from child-care services and facilities
for which they are eligible."
OK, what is 'appropriate assistance' and does
the parent ask for it or is it just automatically rendered? What
constitutes 'eligible' in the child-care services and facilities part?
And is this why suddenly the Clinton Administration is bringing up the
subject of 'child-care' in this country?
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"States
Parties shall take all appropriate legislative, administrative, social
and educational measures to protect the child from all forms of physical
or mental violence, injury or abuse, neglect or negligent treatment, maltreatment
or exploitation, including sexual abuse, while in the care of parent(s),
legal guardian(s) or any other person who has the care of the child"
I'll tell ya folks, this document really undermines
parents. It seems its always the 'state' that is going to take action,
deem appropriate, etc, etc, etc. Ok now let me ask you, what is going
to be determined as 'physical or mental violence'? I've heard of
instances where simply smacking your child was termed abuse; now I'm not
talking about smacking across the face, just a simple smack. I also
heard of an instance where a parent reprimanded her child in a store by
spanking the child on his buttocks and that was termed 'physical violence'.
Unless I'm really 'going overboard' on my child I don't think the 'state'
should determine what is violence. Also, you have races, etc who
perceive these things differently...is the state also going to step in
on these issues?
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"Make
primary education compulsory"
Sheesh, I have a problem with this too.....now
don't get me wrong, I have nothing against education, I'm all for it having
gone back to school 4 times myself. The problem I have is with the
compulsory
part. No choice here, you either do it or else.