Being 
In 
Total 
Control  
of 
Herself 
   
 

 The beauty of a woman  
Is not in the clothes she wears,  
 The figure that she carries,  
Or the way she combs her hair.  
 The beauty of a woman  
 must be seen from in her eyes,  
 Because that is the doorway to her heart, the place  
 where love resides.  
 The beauty of a woman  
 is not in a facial mole,  
But true beauty in a woman  
 Is reflected in her soul.  
It is the caring that she lovingly gives,  
 The passion that she shows,  
 And the beauty of a woman  
With passing years-only grows! 
 
 

How To Recognize A Good Woman : 
A good woman is proud  
She respects herself and others  
She is aware of who she is  
She neither seeks definition from her man, nor  
does she expect him to read her mind  
She is quite capable of articulating her needs  
A good woman is a strong woman  
She recognizes that her strength is weakened by  
attitudes that suggest that she doesn't need a man  
We all know that is not true  
We do need lots of loving, O.K.  
A good woman is hopeful  
She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true  
She knows love, therefore she gives love  
She recognizes that her love has great value and  
must be reciprocated  
If her love is taken for granted, it soon disappears.  
A good woman has a dash of inspiration and a  
dabble of endurance  
She knows that she will at times have to inspire  
her man to reach the potential God gave him  
And she will endure his pain and her own.  
A good woman knows her past  
understands her present and forces toward the future  
A good woman knows God  
She knows that with Him the world is her  
playground, but without Him she  
will just be played with  
A good woman does not live in fear of the future  
because of her past  
Instead, she understands that her life experiences  
are merely lessons  
Meant to bring her closer to self-knowledge and  
unconditional self-love