There are servers on the internet set up specifically to allow chess players to meet, converse, kibitz (discuss a game), and even play chess. One of the most popular, and by far the cheapest (free), is the Free Internet Chess Server (FICS). I can sometimes be found online there with the handle of "Figbert."
You'll undoubtably discover that I could be better at chess, but then, as Deep Blue recently proved, so could Gary Kasparov.
I've also ported timeseal, a lag compensator, to OS/2 using EMX. You can download the latest via HTTP here. I was also involved in beta testing OS/2's most feature-rich chess interface for MysticUK. You can check out infromation about his program, PMICS.
I've writted a brief strategy guide to Crazyhouse chess. You'll find it here.