0. Eat much brown rice.
 1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
 2. Memorize your favorite poem.
 3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have, or
     sleep all you want.
 4. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
 5. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
 6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
 7. Believe in love at first sight.
 8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams.
 9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt
     but it's the only way to live life completely.
10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
11. Don't judge people by their relatives.
12. Talk slowly but think quickly.
13. When someone asks you a question you don't want
      to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
14. Remember that great love and great achievements i
      nvolve great risk.
15. Call your Mom.
16. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
17. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
18. Remember the three R's:
      Respect for self;
      Respect for others;
      Responsibility for all your actions.
19. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
20. When you realize you've made a mistake, take
      immediate steps to correct it.
21. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear
      it in your  voice.
22. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to.
      As you get  older, their conversational skills
      will be as  important as any other.
23. Spend some time alone.
24. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
25. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
26. Read more books and watch less TV.
27. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older
      and think back, you'll get to enjoy it a second time.
28. Trust in God but lock your car.
29. A loving atmosphere in your home is so important.
     Do all you can to create a tranquil, harmonious home.
30. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the
      current situation. Don't bring up the past.
31. Read between the lines.
32. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
33. Be gentle with the earth. Plant a tree or shrub that
      bears flowers or fruit.
34. Pray. There's immeasurable power in it.
35. Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
36. Mind your own business.
37. Don't trust a man/woman who doesn't close his/her
      eyes when you kiss.
38. Once a year, go some place you've never been before.
39. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping
      others while you are living.
40. Remember that not getting what you want is
      sometimes a stroke of luck.
41. Learn the rules, then break some.
42. Remember that the best relationship is one where
      your love for each other is greater
      than your need for each other.
43. Judge your success by what you had to give up
      in order to get it.
44. Remember that your character is your destiny.
45. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.