On July 17,1998 my brother-in-law was killed by a drunk driver at 1:30 am, he was on his way home from a friends house. He was a Victim to a DRUNK DRIVER. Terry was born on July 12,1954 to Betty and Glen Van Dyne,he was their first born,He had red hair,and a temper of a red head. Terry was a fun loving man, family meant more to him then anything. He loved his parents so much he called them every night just to say he loved them. He only had one sibling,(Robert Van Dyne Sr.),when Terry was taken from us that left his brother all alone.
Terry was an outdoors man, he loved to hunt,fish and really loved camping. And he was a real big fan of Dale Earnhart. Terry loved to ride his motorcycle too. It was black cherry red, with alot of shinning chrome.He always said that he was going to die on hi bike and well thanks to Mike Adams it happened on July 17, 1998.
Terry has lefted behind his father,(Glen Van Dyne), his mother,(Betty Van Dyne), one brother, Robert Van Dyne Sr.), four nephews, Robert Van Dyne Jr. Jeremiah Olney, Roman Van Dyne,and Cory Vandyne. Two daughters Heidi VanDyne and Jessica Vandyne and one son Dustin Vandyne. Two nieces Stacy Wilson,and Nicole Van Dyne. He has two great nephews, Zack Wilson, and Heath Van Dyne. One great niece Kayla Wilson that he never got to see. We all miss him and love him so much. We wish he wasn't taken from us so soon.I am his sister-in law ,Evelyn Van Dyne and I am so mad about what has happened to him that I am dedicating this memorial in loving memory of him. TERRY LEE VAN DYNE. For God gave his only son, mom and dad has lost their first born son to a drunken driver.
I KNOW YOUR LIFE ON EARTH WAS TROUBLED
AND ONLY YOU COULD KNOW THE PAIN
YOU WEREN'T AFRAID TO FACE THE DEVIL
YOU WERE NO STRANGER TO THE RAIN
TERRY GO REST HIGH ON THE MOUNTIAN
TERRY YOUR WORK ON EARTH IS DONE
GO TO HEAVEN A SHOUTING
LOVE FOR THE FATHER AND THE SON,
OH HOW WE CRIED THE DAY YOU LEFT US,
WE GATHERED AROUND YOUR GRAVE TO GRIEVE.
I WISH I COULD SEE THE ANGELS FACES,
WHEN THEY HEAR YOUR SWEET VOICE SINGING,
GO REST HIGH ON THE MOUNTIAN TERRY,
YOUR WORK ON EARTH EARTH IS DONE,
GO TO HEAVEN A SHOUTING FOR THE LOVE
FOR THE FATHER ANS HIS SON.
SOMEDAY WE'LL ALL BE JOINING YOU
AND THEN WE ALL CAN BEING SINGING ONCE AGAIN
LIKE WE DID WHEN YOU WAS HERE ON EARTH.
I LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH... LOVE ALWAYS STACY :(
I love and miss you so very much. Now you'll never get to see me and Cory grow up and finish school and go to our proms. Mike Adams you need to be in my shoes, without the uncle you haved loved so much. We was going to go to Cedar Point before school started back up and we never made it because of you Mike Adams. I hope you rot in hell for what you have done to my family. I hate you MIKE ADAMS.
NICOLE VANDYNE age 13 now
WE MISS YOU SON SO VERY MUCH
WE MISS YOUR TENDER LOVING TOUCH
THE I LOVE YOU'S EACH PASSING DAY
YOU SPOKE BEFORE GOING AWAY
NOW ITS THE MEMORIES WE HOLD SO DEAR
AND MOMENTS FILLED,WISHING YOU WERE HERE
SOMEDAY WE'LL MEET AGAIN MY SON
WHEN OUR TIME IS CHOSEN TO BE DONE
UNTIL THEN YOUR LOVE IS LOCKED IN ARE HEART
YOUR MEMORIES ALIVE,AND WILL NEVER PART
I KNOW YOUR UP THERE MY BRIGHT SHINING STAR
MY ANGEL IN HEAVEN,THATS WHERE YOU ARE
IF ONLY MY SON, DRUNKS DIDN'T DRIVE
YOU'D BE HERE WITH US,NOT TAKIN ALIVE
I LOVE'D YOU THEN,I ALWAYS WILL
AS THE DAYS PASS BY I MISS YOU STILL
YOUR DEATH WAS CRUEL AND VERY UNFAIR
THIS HOLE IN MY HEART IS SO HARD TO BEAR
IN MEMORY OF MY SON TERRY LEE VANDYNE
WROTE BY TERRYS AUNT FREDA DEVOLL
FOR HIS PARENTS...UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.
I CAN SEE YOUR LOVABLE GRIN AND THE SMILE UPON YOUR YOUR FACE
WHEN I THINK LONG AND HARD ENOUGH I SEE YOU IN A DIFFERENT PLACE.
I SEE YOU LIVING IN HEAVEN NOW WITH JESUS AND THE ANGELS UP THERE
I SEE YOU WACTHING OVER LOVED ONES WHO WERE LEFT WITH THE SADNESS DOWN HERE
I KNOW YOU WILL NEVER SEE PAIN AGAIN AS YOU ONCE DID HERE BELOW
YOUR LIVING AGAIN IN A WONDERFUL WORLD WHERE EVERYONE WEARS A GLOW
I SEE YOU TEASIN YOUR GRANDPARENTS AND SHARING MEMORIES WITH YOUR UNCLE L.D.
I STILL REMEMBER THE MANY TIMES OF YOUR SMILE YOU WORE FOR ME,
YOU TREATED ME WITH RESPECT AND KINDNESS WHEN I NEEDED A FAVOR DONE
YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE FOR ME WITH A GLEAM IN YOUR EYE AND FUN.
MY NEPHEW WAS A WARM LOVING,WONDERFUL PERSON WHO WOULD DO ANYTHING TO HELP A PERSON IN NEED, HE HAD A HEART OF GOLD THAT WAS FILLED WITH LOVE FOR HIS PARENTS, HIS CHILDREN AND HIE FAMILY. HE HAD RED HAIR AND A TEMPERTHAT WAS JUST AS RED, TO MY KNOWLEDGE HE KEPT IT UNDER CONTROL UNLESS HE WAS PUSHED TO FAR AND THEN HE PUSHED BACK, THIS TIME HE COULD NOT DEFEND HIMSELF, HE WAS MURDERED BY A DRUNK DRIVER AND LEFT TO DIE IN THE STREET, MICHAEL ADAMS YOU DO NOT HAVE A HEART YOU TOOK A PART OF MY FAMILY AND ALONG WITHH THE LAW SYSTEMLEFT US TO DEFEND TERRY WHILE YOU GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. TERRY WAS A KIND HEARTED MAN, YOU ARE A WORTHLESS DRUNK AND OR DRUGGIE AS SO STATED. YOU LIED TO THE JUDGE,YOU SHOWED NO REMORSE, I WOULD LIKE TO SEE THE STATEMENT WHEN YOU TRY TO CONVINCE GOD THAT IT WAS TERRY'S FAULT. YOU HAVE TO BE ONE POOR EXCUSE FOR A MAN THAT EVER BREATHED, WE LOVE YOU TERRY AND WE FIGHT FOR WHAT IS RIGHT.
LOVE YOUR AUNT FREDA
Then said Almitra, Speak to us of Love.
And he raised his head and looked upon
the people, and there fell a stillness upon
them. And with a great voice he said:
When love beckons you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his
opinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he
crucify you. Even as he is for your growth
so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your hight and
caress your tenderest branches that quiver
in the sun,
So shall he desend to your roots and
shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers unto himself.
He threshes youto make you naked.
He sifts you to make you free from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you untill you are plant;
And then he assigns to his sacred
fire, that you may become sacred bread for
God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you
that you may know the secrets of your
heart,and in that knowledge become a
fragment of Lifes heart.
But if in your fear you seek only
love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover
your nakedness and pass out of love's
threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you,
shall laugh, but not all your laughter,
and weep, but not all your tears
Love gives naught but itself and takes
naught but from itself
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say,
"God is in my heart," but rather, "I am
in the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course
of love,for love, if it finds you worthy,
directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you have love and must needs have
desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook
To be wouned by your own understanding
of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart
and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at noon hour and meditate
love's ectasy;
To return home at eventide with
gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the
beloved in your heart and a song of praise
upon your lips.......
Kahill Gibran
The Prophet
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