I will be leaving in 3 days to go to Sweden to see Anders.. I am so happy !!! Counting the hours until I can be in his arms.. Until I can be in Heaven..
updated June 22 99
"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."
~Aristotle~
reasons
I suppose many people don't agree with internet romances. Not all of them work out. We were lucky that ours is still working.
It takes lots of love, trust, giving, waiting, and a sense of humor.
I also think being completely honest is #1, and taking it slow
and really getting to know the person. Anders and I didnt meet each other IRL until we had known each other 18 months.I truely believe Anders and I are soulmates.We know what each other is thinking and at the same exact time we say the same thing.We are two halfs of the same whole..We complete each other..In some ways we are exactly opposite..He is calm, patient. I am impatient and not calm.He doesnt believe in past lives, but I do.. Everything was just too comfortable with him..
"Follow your heart because your heart will know the love that is meant for you."~Unknown~
2.Favorite saying: "We are Us always and forever"
3.Memorable day:July 20th 1998, we exchanged rings.Said vows to each other
4.First meeting in R/L:July19,1998
5.Plans for the future:Hopefully Anders will be moving here. until then try to meet as often as possible.
"Two souls with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one."~John Keats~
Oh what an incredible day. It started out as any ordinary day. I was bored and decided to go online and chat.
I had only had my pc for a few weeks at the time.I went into
an IRC chat program and Anders paged me for a private chat..Everything clicked and We both knew we needed to see more of each other..
(((Anders Writes)))
We met here online and after a few times she asked me to marry her, and I said yes.
This summer we met and could exchange rings and that was the most incredible moment in my life. Well I guess I should start with how it felt, when I first knew she was comming and how it felt when we actually meet in real life. I had a lot of wounders before we meet how it would work out. How I would feel, and would I recognice her and such things. A good thing for me was that I had a lot to do before she got here so I didnt have the time to get scared or fuzzy. Luann had so much questions so I had to comfort her. So I didnt have time for being worried.
When I was at the airport, waiting I was woundering when does she come,where and would I recognize her. I knew deep inside that we where going to have a wounderful time together. I guess thats why I wasn't that worried. I kindow said to myself I want to do this and we just see what happens and I knew it would work out. Then I saw someone lost upstairs on the airport but I wasnt totally sure it was Luann, because I only had an old pic of her.
She came down and we said hi and held eachother and it felt like we had known eachother for ages. Like it was just meant for us to be together, but i must admit i had a lot of butterflies in my belly.
We waited for the luggage, and when we sat in the car I just held her and it felt so good that was when I really felt how much we love eachother and every time Luann is in my arms
I feel so strong love and I feel so close to her it is such a wounderful feeling.
Our time together was so wounderful and when she left it felt so empty. I miss her more and more for every day and I get nuts when I don't see her. When I think of Luann I know how it feels to be close.
Luann is a remarkable and amazing Lady and I am very happy to have her as my wife and lover and soulmate and as I said the match is perfect and will last for eternity.
Anders
"True love doesn't have a happy ending: true love doesn't have an ending." Anonymous
(((Luann Writes)))
I started chatting with Anders in January 1997 on irc.. We both had icq and exchanged #'s. We started chatting all the time on icq.. I think after chatting 2 times I told him I Loved him. We just clicked.. Soon after I asked him to be my cyberhubby..he agreed.. I did most of the chasing hehe, but like I told Anders.. I knew a good thing and didnt want to lose him!!!
We started talking on the phone once in a while.. I just Love his voice and his accent.. I could listen to him for hours..
On our 1st Anniversary which is January 14th. There was a knock on my door and girl from a flower service... deliverying a single red rose in a beautiful vase..From Anders..for me.. I cannot express how touched I was .. Even today when I think of it it brings tears to my eyes.. I still have the rose.. I will cherish it forever.
We both knew we needed to meet each other in RL.... I decided I would fly to Sweden. Needless to say I was so nervous. I was a basket case.. I kept asking friends for advice ..Evryone I worked with encouraged me to go. They could all tell how I Love him . As soon as I would walk into work everyone would ask , Hows Anders. etc etc..
The day came I was to leave.. My friend Connie took me to the airport.. I actually felt pretty calm.. After 2 stops we landed in Gothenburg.After getting off the plane. I looked around and didnt see him.. Finally I noticed him.. I walked to him and we just held each other..It was so comfortable.. It was meant to be.. I looked into his eyes and saw Love.
We were both amazed how wonderful it felt to be together.. It was a match made in heaven.. We felt deep Love for each other..
It was the best time I ever had in my entire life.. Anders took me to see many things (museums, statues, boat tours, restaurants).And just being with him.. In his arms was heaven.
While I was in Sweden we went and bought wedding rings.. We went out to the woods and exchanged rings. We had our own private ceremony and said words of Love. Now we are bound together for life..
For 2 days before I left .. I cried, knowing that soon I wouldnt be able to be in his Arms.. or touch him, kiss his lips..
"Oh, what good will writing do? I want to put my hand out and touch you. I want to do for you and care for you. I want to be there when you're sick and when you're lonesome."~Edith Wharton~
I am back home now.. Anders is working on coming here to the USA for a visit in about 6 months.. We leave it up to the Lord and if its meant to happen it will!!
It has been about 7 weeks since I have been with Anders in real life.. We chat on the pc nearly everyday, But its just not the same.. ohh but better then nothing.. The phone calls help a little more.. I get so frustrated and sometimes it feels like life just isnt fair.. Lucky me, Anders puts up with my moods .. I am so impatient at times.. He is showing me how to be patient and understanding.. And because of that I have a very deep respect for my wonderful, handsome,strong, Lover and Best friend Anders!!!
Whatever our souls are made of yours and mine are the same.
~Emily Bronte~
I just got back from seeing my wonderful Anders..Our time together is so precious to me.. I am still glowing when I think of it.. Its amazing to both of us .. How much we Love each other..
Honey.. I Love you more and More every day..Our Love is Forever.
True Love.When I started chatting with Anders ,we both knew it would be a wonderful and lasting relationship... He is a wonderful man. I am very lucky to know him
Love doesn't make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worth while.
~Franklin P. Jones~
Jan 10th 1999
We found out that Anders can't come to visit this month. It made me sad and angry.. but I know our Love is strong and everlasting!!
Jan 14th 1999
Wow.. today is our 2 year anninersary. It still amazes us both how in Love we are.. Anders phoned me , it was wonderful to hear his voice.. He is my soulmate
Love is the best thing in the world, and the thing that lives longest
~Henry Van Dyke~
Oh lucky me.. Today From my wonderful husband
I got a beautiful glass vase with 7 of the most beautiful Pink Roses, and white carnations and baby's breath!!
Thank you Honey, Thank you God!!!
"I like not only to be loved, but to be told I am loved"
~George Eliot~
March 30 1999
There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved
June 21 1999
It isn't easy
being so in love with you
and not being able
to see you every day.
There are times when
I'd give anything just to be
able to gaze into your eyes
or hold you in my arms,
even for a few minutes.
I always feel incomplete,
like a part of me is missing,
when we're not together.
I know that, right now,
this is how things have to be,
but that doesn't make it
any easier to bear.
Everyday without you
just reminds me of the joy
you add to my life,
joy that I'm missing...a lot.
So, don't forget
that I love you,
that I'm thinking of you,
and that I'm
counting every minute
until we're together again
"True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart."
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