Monday, June 15, 1998 8:25 a.m.
Quiet at last. The kids are gone to school. Pierre is gone to work. I get to do whatever I
want. Unfortunately it’s raining out and raining good. No matter. I love the rain too.
Just Unfortunate because it has rained for the last week, either in the morning or the early
evening. I missed playing baseball last Monday and yesterday. If it doesn’t clear up by 5
p.m. tonight we won’t be playing again tonight. Which sucks...........cause I really enjoy
playing. Maybe I will go to the Y today. Swimming off my ? can’t find the right word
here. It’s not really frustration, stress or anxiety. The easiest way to explain it is a ball of
something inside me bursting to get out. When I do laps in the pool or any other active
sport it clears my mind. I guess, so I am told, it has to do with having A.D.D. (Attention
Deficit Disorder) Although, I don’t have it too bad, I do have a mild form of it. The
worst thing about having it is the frustration. Frustration that I forget things and
remember the little unimportant things. Frustration that I pick up the phone to call
someone and forget who I am gonna call. Frustration that I walk to the kitchen for
something and I forget what the hell I went to get. So.......back to the living room and
click goes the light and I remember again what it was. Frustration that I am a day early or
a day late for an appointment. A few times I could look back and say that’s funny but the
truth of the matter is it happens so often that it gets frustrating. When I do an active sport
it seems everything gets clearer and I have a new page to start on. So........maybe
frustration is the word I am looking for after all, except I don’t feel frustrated when I go
to do my swimming or baseball. I just know it feels good to slam that ball out when I am
up to bat and when I pull hard on the water and kick hard to make me swim. A funny
story the other day shows how A.D.D. affects me. I went to the Monday night ball game
(cause often it’s raining at my house and not in town 30 min. away) I called my team rep.
He said the game was canceled and he just missed me earlier. We talked about meeting at
8 p.m. to discuss the team shirts. This was fine. since it was about 7 p.m. I figured I
would drive to my mothers and scan a picture we were gonna use for the shirts, cause I
wanted to change the colour of it. Well, so it figures that you can’t do something that
normally takes you 5-10 min. when you are in a hurry. So........I left her house at 8 p.m.
and was about 15 min. late for the meeting. No biggy really cause he waited for me and
had a coffee while he waited. Good thing we agreed to meet at Tim Horton’s. Anywho, I
hate being late and I am ALWAYS late. So then I get rushing and stuff and then I get
hyper as hell and I gibber at a million miles a minute just like this. And he starts to look at
me like I’ve gone off the wall or I’m on speed or something. So, I explained to him the
reason I get so hyper, like I am is cause of this damn A.D.D. and he’s laughing with me
cause I just have to laugh sometimes. I told him I’d be ok once I calmed down. And he
offers to by me a coffee and my eyes get real big and I says NO.......I’ll never sleep tonight
if I drink one of them. And we both laugh. So....then I dig in my pockets for some
change and ask the other guy from my team to go get me an apple juice. So after about a
half hour I calm down. And we got the shirt thing figured out and we all chat for about
another hour. Then I go back to my mom’s to get that scan thing working which I
thought about after I left her house the first time and it took me two minutes to do it when
I got there. And she didn’t think it would work cause she was fooling with it after I left to
see what she could do. And of course I talk to her for a half hour by then I am looking at
my watch saying to myself, damn.........Pierre asked me if I could get home early and it’s
now 10 o’clock. And about 15 min. later I get home and I know Pierre isn’t gonna be too
happy. And he gives me this cold shoulder treatment. Not too bad cause I know how to
get him to stop. He he. Then we both go to sleep happy. So.........that is a glimpse into
one of my hectic days. I tell you it’s a world gone mad. Na......just me I guess. LMAO.
So........here I sit on the brink of 30 writing this and laughing at myself cause..............i just
do and deep down, the reality of it all is..........I like me and I like my world even if it does
go mad. And trust me at least once or twice a week it does go mad. Often, I find there is
so many things I want to do or need to do and just can’t seem to get them all done. And
quite frankly, damn I forgot what I was gonna say cause I just checked the spelling on
quite and realized i had quiet so fixed it. Damn...........see what I mean......lol.
Anywho...... Yahooo!!!!!!!!! The rain has stopped now and the sun is trying so hard to
shine through the clouds or cloud since it is gray all over and you can’t distinguish any
clouds, you know what I mean one big gray sky and one big cloud I guess.
That’s it for now..............talk to you later. Love Christine
p.s. I always sign my journals like that.......like i just wrote a letter to myself or someone
else lol in case anyone takes an interest to read this calamity. Oh and my spelling sucks
but I can use the spell check on this............he he.........i love it.