Relaxation...
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Okay, in here it is just Damsel. I may be a Domme, but even Dommes need a break. This where I like to relax.
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As you may or may not know I have been working on this page a lot lately. And I couldn?t help but read this page in that process. I congratulated myself on being able to talk for three printed pages and still say absolutely nothing. *sigh* So I will give this another shot.

I enjoy listening to country music, filk (think folk with a sci-fi or fantasy twist), musicals, and read like a demon possessed. I love fantasy novels and love magic. I met my husband through my reading of Mercedes Lackey novels. I have been married for over three years to a wonderful, if dominant, man. Yes, it is a Dom-Domme marriage. They are rare but they do happen. It doesn't cause as many problems as one might think. However it does make finding a submissive that can enjoy both of us a lot harder.

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No. My family doesn't know I am in the lifestyle. My mother almost lost it when she found out I was bi-sexual. It was just a huge mess. I don't bother anyone with the way I have chosen to live My life and expect others to extend me the same courtesy.
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I have wonderful husband who I can enjoy dominating a sub with. He is new to the lifestyle but is learning... He is the most wonderful man I have ever had the good fortune to meet. If you see me at a meeting you will most likely see him. We are joined at the hip. We are discrete in how we have chosen to live our lives. The world just isn't ready for us yet. Hopefully soon, it won't matter what your kink is. We are poly and in the scene.
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For those who care, I did try both sides of the coin before I decided I was a Domme. I have been a sub but lacked the ability to let go that is required in the best subs. Also, I am a self admitted control freak. I top from the bottom when I try to sub. However I do admit to being a bedroom switch. It is nice to have someone your trust to take care of you no matter how vunerable you get.

My passion in life is for passion and desire. If this confuses you don?t worry about it. I need passion, the fire that burns in one?s belly, or for me life is meaningless. What have I gained if no one cares what I do. Or a greater tragedy what if I don't care what I have done. Live life like there will never been another moment, not to say to be careless, but enjoy life for what it is. Enjoy life for what it is at the moment, not in a second, or an hour, or a day, month or year.... Now just now. I once heard someone say "Death is just God's way of telling you to slow down." If you needed that message you never really lived to begin with.

Added by popular demand *smiles* a picture of me... Please understand this picture was taken in high school. I am now twenty-three so there have been some changes. I have also come to the conclusion that black and white can make almost anyone look wonderful. I consider myself pretty all the same. :-)

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