So, what's this munch thing?

• You are at least 18 years of age.
• You have a genuine personal interest in some aspect of BDSM/power exchange.
• You are not serving in the capacity of or acting on behalf of any law enforcement official, agency or third party in your attendance.
• You respect the confidentiality of other people's attendance and participation in the munches and related events.
• You respect other people's boundaries, protocols and personal space. Everyone makes mistakes, but if you blatantly ignore the boundaries, you will be asked to leave and you will not be welcome back. If you have questions about this, ask.
• You understand that if private gatherings are planned after a munch, that they are just that - private gatherings. They are not functions of the munch and are by invitation of the host/hostess or their designees only.
• You agree not to invite, bring or make anyone aware of the Munch who fails to meet the above criteria. If you invite someone who meets the criteria, you agree to make them aware of these rules and insure that they agree to abide by them before they attend.

Dress is casual. No obvious fetish wear, please. Likewise, no obvious gear or toys are permitted. We meet in a public place that works out very well for us and we want to be welcomed back.

Other than that, the basic rules are courtesy, respect and tolerance for everyone regardless of roles and/or orientation. We believe that everyone is deserving of basic courtesy and respect until they prove otherwise, so please check your egos at the door .

We have not had any problems at our munches and we want to make sure they remain a safe and comfortable place to meet other people with like interests.

If any private gatherings develop independent of the Munch, they are by invitation of the host/hostess only. Remember, if people don't know you well, they may not invite you into their space. Take the time to get to know people and become a part of the group and don't get your feelings hurt if someone doesn't know you well enough at first.

We maintain an e-mail based mailing list for notification of upcoming munches. If you'd like to be placed on the list, type in your e-mail address below and click the "Join Onelist" button.

Please note: Due to the potential problems and expense we cannot contact you via postal mail or phone! All contact is done by e-mail only. If you do not have private e-mail, visit Lycos, Hotmail or Yahoo to obtain a free web-based e-mail account.