Hi! Welcome to a little of my world. This page will always be under construction!
I will also try to keep this bio short, which will be difficult for me as my friends well know! *S* I am ms tj or sotnostj, otherwise known as Tammy. I am a divorced mother of three, my daughter Jettah, my son Matthew, and my daughter, Kourtnee. I am a very proud momma. My bf John is a big part of my life also. I also have some girls that are like my own daughters, pics forthcoming, most of you on ICQ have met Wendy, she and her sisters, Xochitl, Jennifer and Aracely are very much like my own girls. We live in Southern California, near Los Angeles. My interests are many so I will put the major ones here!
Love all types of music, from the oldies, meaning from the 50's up to the current dance music, have even listened to Metallica and Nirvana and they aren't too bad. That's for you Buzzy. *VBS*
Love to read and watch movies, and my all time fave movie is "Braveheart" Mel Gibson is to die for...Fave book, that in itself is difficult, fave authors are Agatha Christie, Victor Hugo, Stephen King, Anne Rice, Janet Daily, Doris Mortman, and others too numerous to mention. Ok need to add J.D. Robb, otherwise known as Nora Roberts, those *by Death* books are great!!!!
For chatting I am usually always found on Yahoo.*S*
I find it real interesting to be able to communicate in another language, I can fluently speak Spanish, and am currently learning, through email to write and read in it as well. And am being taught Swedish from a very special friend. If any one has the patience to teach through this method, I think it is fun and am willing!
almost end of 2008, now I am getting really bad and not updating even once a year. I am still on yahoo, not on aol any more. This year...well we have had our good times and bad times. Jettah graduated from High School!!!!!!!!!! Now am working on getting her into Scroc or college so she doesn't have to be at Burger King the rest of her life. She is a great girl and has a really nice bf right now..shhh don't tell her, if I approve of someone, she usually will break up with them. Matthew is now taller than I am at 16, a junior in HS, with a gf that he is very into..shhh I am not supposed to know about that either. Kourtnee...well see the pics on mstj's other pics, she is an absolute doll, and am very lucky and happy to have her. The best thing about this year so far...Is that my bf John has been in my life for just over a year, and I am very lucky in that aspect. He is from Boston, so goes for Red Sox, Patriots and Celtics..darn I didn't want to get into Basketball....but oh well haven't been paying that much attn to the Ducks, so might as well watch a different sport. John lives in SD right now, and comes up on the weekends, something I look forward to every weekend now. He is considering moving in, but that will probably be for next year. I am still bowling, though my son has gone the circle and become my coach. He won 4 out of 5 events himself at TNBA nationals this year--in Reno, NV, scholarship and a good guys weekend away. Had my extended family living with me and they left Labor Day weekend....so this will be the first Thanksgiving in a few years that will be sorta peaceful..and I will be able to cook. Have been enjoying cooking...not every day...but at least every day of the weekends. Am not with Kuehne & Nagel any more, am with a company called NYK Logistics, and am loving it. It is nice to be somewhere that you are wanted. I get to dress professionally again, so jeans are out....don't keep up with anyone online any more all the friends are IRL. I do still think about my friends I had made online, and hope they are all doing well. I still have the same email address mstj@mindless.com so if anyone wants to drop me a line you can. Hope everyone has a safe holiday season, and makes it to the new year.
end of 2006--well this has been quite a year. Had given an angel to heaven at the beginning of it, Teddy... Still going strong at my job at Kuehne & Nagel, and loving it. Jettah, Matthew and Kourtnee are all still the loves of my life. No current man in my life....well there are a couple..but no bf....will let that lie. Miss some of my old ICQ buds...can't make it back on my old ICQ, so best way to catch me is on my yahoo....sotnostj..yes still using the swedish handle and my initials...not that much has changed. My other kids have started having kids...I made bowler of the year this year for my tournament club, Matthew has also made bowler of the year for his league, that is still running in the family. I am currently in three bowling leagues, and the best tournament club Tropicana Tournament Club, my third family. Have my second family living with me again, and am still keeping up with my friends in Oxnard...so everything is pretty busy right now. 2007 looks like it will be a promising year. Please any of my old friends that miss me, my email is still mstj@mindless.com or sotnostj@yahoo.com..and I can still be caught at sotnostj on yahoo..and have even moved to myspace now....of course with the same handle. Hugs to everyone!!!!
****Well here is an update, my baby is three years old, and all my kids are the joy of my life. I have a wonderful man who is living with me now, and the kids don't drive him bananas all the time. I have started upon a new adventure, and am being a surrogate mom, to a couple in New York. Their twins are due 4/2/03. And so far pregnancy is agreeing with me now as much as it did with Kourtnee, nine weeks along and the only symptom seems to be that I want to sleep almost all the time. Ok...I had the twins, on Feb 28, 2003, each weighed just shy of 6 lbs, and they were gorgeous. I haven't had any more contact with the family, I just know they are all doing fine. It is hard to believe they are almost a year old. I am on my second journey, and this one is testing my abilities in Spanish, as my couple is in Spain. I absolutely adore the Intended Mother, and though we had a failed embryo transfer on 12/12, I am looking forward to helping her finish her family. I am glad that my kids and my bf are with me on this adventure, and if all goes well will do it a couple more times before I can retire. Helping out others has always been something that I have loved to do, and giving the gift of a child, I can't see how anything else can compare. I will try to update more than once every year and a half...and will try to get some new pics up. I hope all my friends out there haven't forgotten me, as I haven't forgotten you, just don't get on like I used to..too much going on with kids soccer, bowling, and bf.If anyone would like to contact me, my email is still mstj@mindless.com, and I am running yahoo and aol at sotnostj, and icq at the old faithful number of 825577, geez that is a really low number isn't it?
2001--Well, so far this year, have started a new job, and will have some very special people moving in with me. I have loved devoting more time to my family, especially am very grateful that I have them and that the kids are strong and healthy. If I haven't told all of you, am very happy that I also have all the friends that I do, you are all a Godsend to me, and everyday I am thankful. I only hope that I can return the love you all have given me.
Well, this part of my HP is updated regularly since I would like to add things that I am planning to or have done. I spent three weeks in Australia with some of my chat friends. Spent time with a few guys from the 20Something room Tragick, Mr buzzy25, and El Deevo, meet them a long time ago and we have become better friends over ICQ and IRL, and had the pleasure of meeting Jan_Brady and TracySt, from 30something, both very lovely, and yes Jan is as perky in life as she is in the room *S*. The list of people that I have met keeps growing so will just be putting in pics grin, but Debsxxo, IbeSuzyQ, Silverhelm, Cat, Big Guy, Mistfolk, Pooh in CA, Aerowin, jimdip, WineMaiden, Kayda, and many many more that I will have to show in pics grin. I have hit many bashes, going as far as Toronto, and having a blast at each of them. Will prolly stick to bashes that are localized due to finances, but love to meet people, so if you are in the LA area or going to, let me know! I have been to a San Diego bash and an Arizona bash in October of 1997,as well, an Ontario Bash and LA Bash in April of 1998, Vancouver in August of 1998 all were a blast. In 1999, I didn't manage as many bashes as I wanted to, but went to Vancouver, and Toronto, and must say that I think I have found my favorite place in the world. Canada. Though I would like to get back to Australia and actually do some backpacking and sightseeing. ..will have pics as soon as I can scan them. I have been able to and do love to travel, and my kids are real good to me, and let me go. . So, that would make me adventurous, to say the least, and willing to try new things.
Thank you for coming to see a little of my world, visit the other pages to see some of my pics. See ya in chat!
