Ok, I guess it's time I just laid it out on this page...I'm gay...I'm sure most of you who visit this page know that already though. If you don't, then, well, I guess you do now. If anyone is stumbling across this page and happens to be a homophobe, well, I'm sorry. I am what I am. I can't change that, no matter what some homophobic, narrow minded, ignorant fuck heads may say. Ok? I didn't choose this 'lifestyle' and I can't change it, so there. Frank Zappa said it best: "You are what you is, you is what you am, you ain't what you're not, so see what you got." Think about what that line means, and if you want more into that idea, buy the CD You Are What You Is , or, hell, even download the song "You are what you is" by Zappa...hopefully you'll understand.

Anyway, on this page, I want to add some essays about being gay that I have written, and what I think being gay is. IT IS SIMPLY WHO YOU LOVE...IT DOES NOT EFFECT YOUR LIFE IN ANY OTHER WAY. I also would like to add some resources for people who might like them (hint: NO GLAAD...I DO NOT LIKE GLAAD), as well as singers and bands that are gay supportive or have gay members. In this regard, I think it is important to say that when someoene is gay supportive, I don't think that means they sing about gay rights or whatever. I see it as bands who simply don't give a fuck, or who have supported gay rights in a way not activism wise, but for example have appeared in gay publications or worked with gay artists.



As much as I say that I don't really care all that much about who's gay or who is 100% gay supportive, it is always nice to know that a musician or singer that you admire and look up to is cool with the whole issue. So, for the gay musicians/gay friendly musicians page, here's the link: Musicians