My name is Tracie. I have a boyfriend and I love him to death but I really have a thing for AJ. Well, one night, while my boyfriend and I were having sex, in my excitement, I called him AJ. Now he's mad at me and thinks that I like AJ more than him since I talk about him all the time also. The sad part is that even though I care deeply for my boyfriend, I love AJ a lot more. But since chances are that I'll never be with AJ, I keep my boyfriend around. Am I wrong? What should I do?
I'm 40 years old but I have this incredible lust for Nick. I have a picture of him by my bed and I'm always thinking about him and watching him on TV. It's sad because I have a daughter around his age and she likes him too. We talk about how much we both like him but I think I like him more than she does. She just thinks he's cute but I'm kind of obsessed. I'm divorced so I don't have a man in my life now. I feel like a pedophile. What should I do?
Jasmine
I have a serious problem. I am so in love with Brian Littrell. My mom is constantly taking away my BSB posters and other merchandise because she says I spend too much time focused on then and I'm beginning to revolve my life around them. Well, the other day I was so mad at her and wanted to prove my love for B-rok so I went to a tattoo parlor with one of my older friends to sign for me since I'm only 15. I got Brian's initials tattooed on my butt. A "B" on one cheek and the "L" on the other. Now I realize that I've made a huge mistake and my mom's beginning to wonder why it hurts me to sit down. She's taking me to the doctor in a few days to have me checked out since I won't tell her what's wrong. I am so scared. What am I going to do?
Leslie
My name is Tim. The Backstreet Boys are cool and all. I mean I listen to their music. But here's my problem. There's this really hot girl in my school. I knew that she really likes the BSB so I asked her if she wanted to go to their concert with me when they come to town. She didn't seem very interested so I told her that I knew them and could get us backstage to meet them. She got really excited and said she'd go with me. But now the problem is that I completely lied to her. I don't know them. I've got a few months before they come here but I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell her the truth because now we're going out and having a good time and if I tell her then she'll hate me and I really like her. Tell me what to do.
Hi, my name is B.A. and I am a BSBaholic. Here's my problem. Kevin is, by far, my fave BSB. The other day, I was over at my boyfriends house. I had to look in his desk for something and when I open the drawer, I saw all these pictures of Howie and a piece of paper with my b/f's name and Howie's last name on it. How can I go on knowing this? I haven't said anything to my boyfriend yet, what should I do?
Well, the way I see it... it all comes down to your feelings for your boyfriend. If you are really meant to be, you can overcome the differences surrounding the Kevin and Howie thing. Here's my advice. If you really love your boyfriend, try something new to spice up your relationship. I suggest maybe role-playing. You can dress up as Howie and he can be Kevin. You can act out little scenarios... you could have alot of fun with it. This will show him that you love him, even though he has a crush on Howie. It can all turn out positive. Good Luck B.A.!!
Girl!! What is wrong with you? You have the most perfect set-up!! Look here's the deal. Your boyfriend wants Howie, and I am sure he wants you too, and you want your boyfriend, and you would love to meet Kevin. Well then it's time for THREESOME. You and your boyfriend can get together with Howie, and then you can have a little Kevin on the side. Its kinky, its not my style, but what ever works for you. Keep the peace!!!
Well just because you've found these things in your boyfriend's desk does not necessarily mean that he is gay. It is completely normal for one heterosexual man to have feelings for another heterosexual man. He could just really admire or look up to Howie D or he coud just wish he were Howie D. Or your boyfriend could've felt a little neglected by all of the attention that you pay to Kevin, (which is completely understandable; who wouldn't get lost in those gorgeous green eyes) and decided to try and compensate by focusing his attention elsewhere. Bottom line is you need to talk to your boyfriend and find out what's going on in your relationship to make him behave this way. Then just go from there. You cannot pretend that nothing is going on.
