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for the #WebWomen homepage
If you want to know about me I think the best thing to do would be to ask some of the other ops (in #WebWomen) and friends of mine to describe me. I'm sure this has some psychological significance - like I don't have the self confidence to describe myself or something, but NO its not that at all - I just don't know how I come across to others, only how I feel in myself. That's not going to be much use to you now is it ? So lets see what the others have to say about me....
"You come over as very sharp, witty, incisive, quick on the uptake, bright and confident. In real life: all of the above without the confidence." (This, obviously, from one of the few people who have enjoyed the privilege of meeting me in real life.)
"A smart mouthed, snot nosed, spoiled British brat!!!" (This turned, with time, into the next quote which, almost unbelievably, is from the same person.) "Sweet, soft, cuddly, sexy as hell....a wonderful friend, confidante, trustworthy, outspoken, yet timid at times and very lovely." (I couldn't believe it either!)
"Phantom makes you feel welcome right away. She sounds older than she is so don't be fooled...definitely worth knowing but don't try to seduce her on a boat because she will throw up all over you and that is NOT sexy." (This one is from a newcomer to the channel who only met me recently...a first impression for you.)
"Phan is a wicked lil devil. She's fun to be around and the life of the channel." (From a maniac friend who doesn't know what on earth she's talking about.)
"my friend" (Phan smiles)
"what's a good word for 'overbearing' ;)" "a very old soul in a young body" "you have the ability to intimidate people when they first meet you" "damn dry sense of humor...at times *biting* humor, *grown up* humor" (I think I better mention that this lady hates me, can't imagine why ;)
"a good friend as well as being good fun....mature for your age in a lot of ways and a bit naive in others....very entertaining....shyer in real life than irc. Basically a shit head" (hehehe, thanks mate)
"Phan is a bang and a half, a shag and more!" (should I be blushing ?)
"Icy exterior...aloof and disdainful....with something not quite nameable that burns white hot inside. The only way to know there is anything remotely warm at all about you, is to take the time to get to KNOW you...if put off by that ice...something nice might be missed...but one has to have the patience to melt that ice...to feel the warmth." (Wow, is that philosophical or what ? This is from my favourite sparring partner...no wonder one of my nicks is Ice^Queen!)
Well, I reckon that covers most of the sides of me that anybody is likely to see. As you can tell, everyone sees something different although most agree that I come over as older than I am (20yrs).
You may come across me in various
nicks:
[^Phantom]
Mistress_Phan
Ice^Queen
Brat_Phan
Brit_Brat
and any other nick that I use as
the mood takes me.
If there's anything else you'd like to know, eg anything personal, you
could always try asking me. I doubt you'd be successful but it's worth
a shot.
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