~ All About Sammi ~
( probably more than you want to know )
So much for that side of me. . . . .
When I look in the mirror, I see an attractive woman. Being admired and desired becomes important to me. Now I've always found this somewhat strange since when I am not dressed I have absolutely no interest in other men, at least not sexually. But when dressed . . . . ahhhhhh. By the way, this use to bother me a little until I found transgender sites on the web and many of the girls expressed the exact same feelings.
Naturally, I've read tons of stuff about all this and if you're really interested there are a great many better places around here to research the subject. In fact, I'll add a good link on the first page to answer generic questions. For myself, I live two lives, so to speak, and I'm mostly content with it. I don't seem to feel the need to take a strong vocal position, label myself this or that, and then run around making sure everyone accepts me, or at least makes room for me. I do wish my voice would get a little higher when I slip on a mini skirt,
In the week since I started these pages, I have received quite a bit of email ( thank you very much ) and I've decided to answer some of the more common questions here, rather than repeat myself
in my responses.
Sigh . . .
Is Sammi dominate or submissive? . . . Kind of a silly question isn't it? I mean to be good at either don't you have to have a complete understanding of the other? And doesn't it often depend upon who you are with and other circumstances? Anyway, if I have to pick, I guess I'll say submissive.
Wanna see Sammi's. ..
Pictures???
Back to the. ..
Beginning
Gee, now that I have the opportunity to say anything I want, I don't know where to start. I don't think I'll tell you about my childhood, or my early sexual experiences. Mine are so similar to many others like me, I would be just repeating the same old story. Besides, others have told it much better than I ever could. Surfice it to say that I had a nice childhood, more or less, and I managed to grow to manhood ( giggle ) without to much trouble.
Basically, I'm just your 'above average', macho guy. . . into the usual guy type things. Like everyone else, I chase the dollar in order to continue eating, and I write in hopes of someday creating the "Great American Novel" and retiring at an early age. I better add here that I like women. . scratch that . . I adore women, and I do quite well, thank you very much. . .
The other side, the Samantha side, is quite another story. When I dress, something wonderful happens to me. It's almost like there's this tremendous surge of estrogen throughout my body, which I don't really completely believe, but I do become extremely feminine. The clothes, or the mere act of dressing, seems to change my whole perspective, my attitude, and even my posture. From predator to prey???
Of course Samantha is very much a lady with both style and class. ( You knew that didn't you. . . ) Sammi on the other hand, is a slutty tramp, to put it mildly.
( You probably knew that too. . .grin )Both however, seem to have the same needs.
but I suppose that's asking too much . . .
What does Sammi like to wear? . . . My best feature would be my legs, so naturally anything that shows them off. I like mini skirts and long skirts that are slit up either the side or the middle. Of course high heels are a must! I prefer thigh highs to panty hose. Leather is nice, but so are silk and satin. You know, I've always wanted a business suit with a short skirt, in blue or grey, tailored of course, but I've never bought one. For just chilling out I wear four outfits. Jeans and a t-shirt, jean cutoffs and a t-shirt, and either my favorite oversized pink sweatshirt ( it would be big on a Dallas Cowboy Lineman ) with panties and 5" mules, or an oversized man's shirt...pink of course..... For some reason, wearing another man's shirt seems sooooo sexy.
Can Sammi really cook? . . . You bet your sweet bootie I can. Actually, I am a very good cook, probably because I like it, but then aren't the world's best cooks all men? My favorite foods are Italian and Mexican and if you ask nicely I will send you the absolute best recipe in the whole wide world for spagetti.
What's Sammi's favorite fantasy? . . . Ever since I first saw it on TV I've been fascinated with the concept of shape changers...you know, the guy who could change into anything he wanted, even a table or chair. Being able to be a man when payday rolls around or when the car needs repairing and then being able to change into a drop dead gorgeous woman to be wined and dined is my idea of a great fantasy. For me, this ranks right up there with being able to get pregnant.
Does Sammi hang out in Chat Rooms? . . . Yes I do from time to time. I was on AOL as Morgana4u
( cute alias huh ) and now when I use AOL I use the name SamiiM. Recently I found this thingy called Excite, which is a virtual places deal where you use little avators and can go anywhere on the web. I enjoy that, but there doesn't seem to be many of us using it yet. So . . . . I just put on a Sharon Stone avator and flirt with the straight and gay guys . . . grin. If you want to check this out you can find it by doing a search on the word 'Excite' and download the program.
If Sammi could be born again, would she be a woman? . . . Hmmmmmmm yes and no. If I had to weigh 300 pounds and have a terrible complexion, rotten teeth, stringy hair, and stubby legs I'd have to say NO! But...if I could be even half way attractive, make that three fourths, then the answer is a resounding YES. I'm bad huh? To place so much importance on looks, but it's been my observation that this is the way of the world and besides, I figured i could take my wonderful mind with me....grin
( Remember . . it's my looks I'm talking about, not yours )
Why do all TGs look so hot?. . . I loved this question. The guy who asked it said he was straight and had never been with a tranny before. My personal observation is that we simply work at it. Women are suppose to dress for men, though most of them don't. We are very aware of what turns heads, catches the eye, and we take advantage of this. Most of us like the slutty look, me included, but I also believe that elegance is even more important. Who wants to take a slut to a really nice restaurant? I'll save my slutty look for the clubs and the bedroom. . . grin
What would my ideal guy be like?. . .This is easy. Take two part Sean Connery, one part Tom Cruise, one part Val Kilmer, add a dash of Kurt Russell, a pinch of Jerry Seinfield, mix well with a large cup of sense of humor, half a cup of intelligence, and of course serve in a financial independent dish. ( are you out there? )
gotta run.....I'll finish this later........kiss kiss
~ Layla Unplugged ~