Survivor Journals

Bob of
If I Die Before I Wake has invited nine journallers to participate in a Cyber Survivor Adventure.

Every couple of weeks, the group will be issued a "challenge entry". The site will post a excerpt from the challenge entries, as well as the link to the complete entry found on the journaller's own journal site.

After the challenge entry is posted, the nine journallers will vote one of the writers off the site.

The "ousted" journaller will actually remain on the site, but rather than posting further challenge entries, they will act as a judge and commentator.

The first challenge entry has been issued, and can be found at the Survivor Journal website. The actual entries should be completed by
October 1, 2000.

Please take the time to visit, especially once the challenge entries are posted. There is a message board to post your thoughts/comments and also a instant poll where visitors can vote for who they would want to see kicked off the site.

The reasons behind Survivor Journals are simple.

1. To try something new.
2. Increase the interaction of the journal community.
3. The challenge.
4. Increased exposure to all journals involved.

So take a look around, explore all the journals involved.

If you would like to take part in Survivor Journals, Year Two (around Nov/Dec 2000), let Bob know!


Diet Week #12

Goal :
lose 100 lbs.

Immediate goal:
the next 10 lbs.

Lost to date:
18 lbs
this number updates
on Tuesdays --



THE CARE AND FEEDING OF STEVE

October 10, 2000

Yesterday seemed to be devoted to the care and feeding of Steve Schalchlin. After all, it's "all about Steve," isn't it?

At home, we were getting ready to make the big switch. Peggy has gone to spend the week with Olivia and Steve will be coming to Davis on Thursday to spend a few days (he's speaking about AIDS to Davis High School kids, doing a recording session with Ned, and singing at a Service of Remembrance for those who have lost their lives violently as a result of their sexual orientation on Sunday). Before that, he's at Stanford as a Jonathan L. King Lectureship Visiting Speaker, and I've come along, as well as his friend Ken MacPherson, to make sure he gets to all his engagements, remembers to bring along CDs to sell, and in general to cater to his every whim. (He's like that, you know :-) )

So anyway, this meant Peggy's things out of the guest room and cleaning up somewhat...at least clearing a path through the front door. I also had a bunch of transcription to do, so Peggy did the brunt of the work (I"m so kind to houseguests). Maybe it was the care and feeding of Bev as well. I sat at my computer and she took care of the housework (I could learn to like this arrangement!). She made a nice space for "Stevie Boy," as she calls him, including even ironing his pillowcases.

I took a break at one point to go to the store to pick up food for him while he's with us. He has some strict dietary restrictions that have to be followed. The medication that saved his life, Crixivan, also has given him diabetes and so he adheres to a strict diabetic diet. His cholesterol also went sky high last year, and so he has to watch his fat intake. However, with both of those restrictions, the AIDS makes him very thin, and he needs to pack on the carbohydrates so he doesn't lose too much weight. People who think AIDS is cured, or that it's "not a big deal" any more should see the kinds of things Steve lives with each day (try to figure out his pill schedule alone!). I guess that's one reason why all of us do work on the "care and feeding of Steve Schalchlin." (Dont read this, Steve.)

I got the refrigerator stocked about the time Peggy finished ironing the pillowcases, we packed all of her gear into the car (sheesh--you'd think she was going away for a month!) and we drove down to the Bay Area to move her into Olivia's apartment.

With Peggy taken care of, I drove to San Francisco to meet Steve at Ken's apartment. He and I drove out to the theatre where Ken is doing a show to pick him up. It's the Victoria on 16th and Mission and an interesting building in that it's like the Lamplighters' old Presentation Theatre, gone to seed. Same sort of look, about the same size, great fly space, a bit of wing space, and could be a great theatre if you could find a place to park and if you didn't have to wend your way through drug dealers and hookers to get there.

After we met Ken, we stopped by a taqueria to pick up some dinner. This place was, some 20 years ago, a cafeteria type place where I used to have lunch with the Lamplighter crowd when I worked there. Then it became a Chinese restaurant where we continued to have lunch each day. It seems strange to see it completely remodeled and doing a booming business as a taco and burrito fast food joint. But we picked up a couple of huge burritos and brought them back to eat at Ken's place, sharing them with his Brittany spaniel, Piper.

Around 8 or so, the three of us packed up the car and headed south to Palo Alto. It poured rain most of the way here. Steve was blissfully unaware, snoring in the passenger seat. Ken was a great navagator and we only had to make a handful of u-turns when we got going in the wrong direction.

So here we are ensconced in the Faculty Club guest house. It has a very 70s look about it. We are in a 3 room suite (la-dee-da!) and the living room has a nice high vaulted ceiling, a lovely "conversation area," and a writing desk overlooking the campus. Of course the TV is so old it has no remote control, dosn't get cable, has lousy reception, and has no VCR and while the telephone has a modem jack, there's no place to plug in the computer, so I'm typing with my suitcase on a luggage stand, the computer on top of that, and my knees straddling the whole thing. But it works, so I'm not complaining.

Once we got here, Steve crashed. Before that, the three of us realized that while this place comes with a nice continental breakfast, there will be nothing there that Steve can eat, so Ken and I went out searching for food to stock the refrigerator with. Trying to find a supermarket in a strange town in the rain after dark is a neat trick when you haven't a clue where you're going. But we did manage to find a Safeway and brought home huge bags of fruit, bread, and non-fat cottage cheese so Stevie Boy will be able to have something to eat for breakfast.

Surprisingly, I had a fairly decent sleep on a roll-away bed and now the house is starting to come to life. Soon we will all pretend we are important people, put on our "costumes" and go off to meet the folks from the Stanford Center for Medical Bioethics.

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