CLASS OF 1999
After graduation, I attended Seminar Yerushalayim, in (you guessed it) Israel. This was a great year for me as I formed relationships both with fellow students and teachers. Some of my friends from Israel are my closest friends today. I also got a chance to spend time at some of our BHI teachers' homes and that brought back a lot of memories. That year as a whole was an important year for me because it made me into a more solid individual with a solid perspective on life. I strongly recommend everyone to explore the possibility of spending the year (or less) in Israel. It's never too late.
ME TODAY
In April of 2002, I got married to Menachem Touretski. We currently live in Monsey with our 2 boys, ages 2 and 8 months. My husband learns in a kollel here, something which we both want very much, and I work in a private insurance and financial services firm. When I began college right after Israel, I decided to major in Accounting. But once I spent a considerable amount of time in school, I realized that the field is not for me. So I changed majors and I now have a BS in Business Management and Economics. I enjoyed the marketing and business classes that I took and I utilize some of my knowledge in my workday. In addition, I am currently pursuing my insurance broker's license.
One piece of advice that I have for people is not to be afraid to start taking classes in a certain field even if you are not certain that you would like to continue there. It is important to test the waters before diving in. There is only one way to find out if something is up your alley. The worst that will happen is that you will have to take some additional classes. That can't be as bad as ending up in a field you don't like.
The changes that have taken place in my family life are the best thing that ever happened to me. There is nothing like coming home to two adorable little things who are completely dependent on you. True, it is a big responsibility, but the rewards are indescribable. Also, the feeling of being settled down in your own home, with your own family is something that I do not take for granted. It is a very comforting feeling.
BHI MEMORIES
Like most of you, I have a lot of memories. Of course the Shabbatons stand out in my mind, as well as the Chagigas, which were probably more fun to prepare for than to attend. But also, for some reason, I often remember the first color war that we had in '98. It was great seeing everybody putting their best foot forward to create beautiful things - from theme songs, to dances, to banners.
I WISH I KNEW THEN ...
… what it takes to be a parent and I wish I appreciated my parents as much as I should have. Being a parent now, I realize just how much pain and tears go into parenting, and how many sleepless nights are spent on various things. Parents are not something to be taken for granted.
A MESSAGE TO MY FELLOW ALUMS
There is nothing like being settled down with family in the comforts of your own home. Sometimes you go through life and don't even realize that time is passing you by and before you know it, most of it is gone. Then you ask yourself: what have I done and where am I going? It's important not to put your life on cruise control but to live every moment with a purpose.
ON A FINAL NOTE
Monsey is a great place! If you find yourself in the vicinity, please feel free to stop by. My number is 845-425-5050. You can also feel free to email me at ct@safrin-ins.com.
