He married: 1) 14 October 1809 Abigail, daughter of Titus and Deborah (Beckwith) Hayes, born in Hartland, Connecticut, 2 May 1788, and died there 24 January 1843; 2) 2 May 1843 Sarah L. Stiles of Suffield, Hartford County, Connecticut. In 1860 he and Sarah were living in Suffield.
Children of Arnold and 1) Abigail (Hayes) Oatman, all b. Hartland, CT:
484 Julia Ann, b. 20 Dec 1810; d. 13 Aug 1896, Rochester, PA; m. Lemuel Woodruff, 20 Aug 1835. He was b. 2 Aug 1804, Colebrook, CT; d. Jan 1899, Rochester, PA. Children, surname Woodruff:
A Richard Alden, b. 19 Apr 1837; m. Rebecca Jane FryeB Harriet Ellen, b. 26 Jun 1839; m. Wheelan Dolby
C George Elmer, b. 16 Sep 1842; m. Sarilla Wolf
485 Loyal, b. 9 Feb 1813; d. 8 Sep 1814
486 Mariette, b. 27 Sep 1815; d. 13 Apr 1898, Norwalk, CT; m. William Henry Parsons, 23 Oct 1839. He was b. 27 Aug 1812, Granville, MA, and d. 5 Apr 1898, Brookside, CT. One of the local papers of Norwalk, CT, states:
"The death of William Henry Parsons at Brookside, the residence of Milo H. Parsons, his son, took place April 5, 1898. After a brief week of mourning, his aged wife, Mariette Parsons, followed him to the silent land. Not often is so long and happy a reunion broken to be so quickly restored. Through the vicissitudes of nearly sixty years, they trod the path of life together, rejoicing in the brightness, and comforting and sustaining each other when trials and sorrows were their lot. Lovely and pleasant in their lives, in death they were not divided."
Children, surname Parsons:
A Milo Holcombe, b. 5 Oct 1840, West Granville, MA; m. Georgiana Hull of Danbury, CT (she b. 26 Oct 1840). Children, surname Parsons:I Florence Hull, b. 25 Feb 1869; d. 15 Nov 1875II Fred Hull, b. 20 Jul 18(70); m. Lulu Delaplaine Bedelle
III George Milo, b. 10 Jul 1871; d. 26 Jul 1871
IV Harold Ashton (Parsons), b. 13 Jun 1872; m. Mary Brookfield Paxson
V Marion Bulkeley, b. 3 Jan 1874; d. 1 Jul 1874
VI Waldo Hull, b. 20 May 1879
B Howard Luzerne (Parsons), b. 26 Dec 1844, Sandisfield, MA; m. Emma Farrar of Independence, MO; she was b. 1 Nov 1854. Children, surname Parsons:
I Bertram Ward, b. 31 Jan 1878, Independence, MO. Worked for North Pacific Railroad Co.II Helen Marriner, b. 13 Oct 1879, Independence, MO.
III Lois Farrar, b. 13 Sep 1884, Independence, MO.
IV Janet Farrar, b. 9 Nov 1894, Independence, MO.
C Ellen, b. 2 Jul 1847, Sandisfield, MA; d. 19 May 1848
D William Ashton, b. 17 Feb 1851, Sandisfield, MA; d. 22 Aug 1856
487 Loyal, b. 13 Jul 1818; d. 1 Jun 1870, Winsted, CT; m. Emily H. Johnson, 21 Oct 1844
488 Harriet Abigail, b. 28 Aug 1820; d. 3 Aug 1828
489 Alva, b/bp. 17 Mar 1823, St. James Church, Arlington, Bennington Co., VT; d. 6 Dec 1883, New York City, NY; m. Sarah Isabelle Pease, 5 Nov 1855
490 Lester Hayes, b. 16 Jul 1826; m. Eva Eliza Noonan, 15 Sep 1848
491 Leman, b. 16 Dec 1829; d. 27 Mar 1889; m. Catharine Whitmore, 5 Feb 1857. She was b. 5 Sep 1835. There were no children. In the 1850 census of Bennington, Bennington Co, VT, Leman was living with Samuel and Orvilla Benedict and their family.
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Weeks, Descendants of Richard Hayes, of Lyme, Connecticut, Through His Son, Titus Hayes [1904]
1850 census, Arlington and Bennington, Bennington Co., VT
1850, 1860 census, Suffield, Hartford Co., CT
1840 census, Hartford, Hartford Co., CT