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April is Child Abuse Prevention Awareness Month.

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Feel free to contact me with any questions.   Most states have a "Prevent Child Abuse" website.  See if you can find the one for your state and check it out.  If not, Indiana's is a great source of information.  www.pcain.org

Thanks for helping to keep our most precious gifts, safe.
Recognizing Child Abuse and Neglect


PHYSICAL ABUSE



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Infliction of physical injury or allowing another to do so.

Physical Indicators
Unexplained bruises
Unexplained welts
Unexplained burns
Unexplained lumps
Unexplained bumps
Unexplained fractures
Unexplained lacerations or abrasions
Hemorrhages
Burns by cigarettes
Burns by immersion
Dental/oral injuries
Behavioral Indicators - Child
Verbally reports abuse
Too eager to please
Depression
Low self-esteem
Behavioral extremes
Role reversal
Developmental lags
Appears frightened of caretaker
Apprehensive children cry
Exaggerated startle response
School absenteeism


Behavioral Indicators of Caretaker
- harsh disciplinarian, describes child in a consistently negative manner, defensive, conceals or misleads about child's injuries, substance abuser

If you suspect a child is suffering from physical abuse, report it to Child Protective Services.


NEGLECT


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Chronic failure to meet basic needs of a child for food, clothing, shelter, medical care, education or supervision.

Physical Indicators
Flat, bald spots on infant's head
Dirty, smelly
Torn, dirty or inappropriate clothing for the weather
Developmental lags
Underweight
Behavioral Indicators - Child
Dull
Listless
Begging/stealing food
Constant fatigue
Alcohol or drug use
Reports being left alone


Behavioral Characteristics of Caretaker
- substance abuser, chaotic life style, apathetic, expects too much of child

For more information on a specific form of neglect, medical neglect, click here.

If you suspect a child is suffering from neglect, report it to Child Protective Services.


SEXUAL ABUSE


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Utilization of a child for sexual gratification by an adult or older child in a position of power, or permitting another person to do so.

Physical Indicators

Any venereal disease
Bruised/dilated genitals or rectum
Pregnancy under 16 years of age
Difficulty/pain in walking or sitting
Foreign matter in bladder, rectum
or urethra
Pelvic inflammatory disease
Torn, stained or bloody underclothing
Recurrent urinary tract infections
Behavioral Indicators - Child

Aggressive, overt sexual behavior
Drawing pictures of people with
genitals or vagina
Cruelty to animals without
physiological basis
Pre-mature knowledge of explicit
sexual acts
Sleep disorders
Taking frequent baths
Starting fires
Self-inflicted injuries
Expresses fear of a particular
person or place
Reports sexual abuse


Behavioral Indicators of Caretaker
- extremely protective of family privacy, does not allow child to be involved in extra-curricular activities, does not want child to engage in developmentally appropriate activities i.e. dating, encourages child into prostitution, substance abuser

For more information on sexual abuse, click here

If you suspect a child is suffering from sexual abuse, report it to Child Protective Services.



EMOTIONAL MALTREATMENT


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Emotional Neglect - Chronic failure by the caretaker to provide support and affection necessary to develop a sound and healthy personality.

Emotional Abuse - Chronic attitude or acts of a caretaker which are detrimental to the child's development of a sound and healthy personality.

Behavioral Indicators

Low self esteem
Difficulty forming positive relationships
Eating disorders
Elimination problems
Speech disorders
Inability to trust
Sleep problems
Sadistic, masochistic
Apathetic
Suicidal
Withdrawal
Anxiety, fear
Developmental lags
Reports emotional maltreatment


Behavioral Characteristics of Caretaker
- rejecting, ignoring, terrorizing, isolating, corrupting

For more information on emotional maltreatment, click here

If you suspect a child is suffering from emotional maltreatment, report it to Child Protective Services.



Prevent Child Abuse Indiana

32 East Washington Street Suite 1200
Indianapolis, IN 46204  
Phone: 317.634.9282
Fax: 317.634.9295
800.CHILDREN
800.244.5373
Email: generalinfo@pcain.org

Suspected child abuse or neglect should be reported to Child Protective Services (CPS). They operate a 24-hour, 7-day a week hotline: 1-800-800-5556. There is also a local number for every county if you are unable to get through. Click here, check your phone book or call Prevent Child Abuse Indiana at 317.634.9282 to get your local CPS number. You may also contact you local law enforcement agency to report abuse or neglect.

Remember, Indiana law requires the reporting of suspected child abuse and neglect. Callers can remain anonymous and are immune from all civil and criminal liability, provided they have made the report in good faith.

When you call CPS, it is important that you have all of the identifying information in front of you: name, ages of each child, address, phone number. You may call without this information, but it helps CPS quickly investigate. When you are describing a situation, remain calm and maintain a "factual" manner with dates, eyewitness observations and direct conversations. Biased language is often a "red flag" for a CPS report, which is why it is important to keep your report factual.