Dear Saerie,
If you had read the introduction page under 'about me', you would know that i'm from Singapore. From your letter, i had concluded that 'he' is your 1st bf you ever had in your 17 years. I agree with you that we had to trust out mates but have this thought came across you that WHAT IF, you had place your trust on a person not worth it? Trust had to be built up. 'He' had to gain your trust bit by bit through actions and not words. Did he do that? Have you heard of this saying -- " Promise made is meant to be broken" ? Assuring is one thing and proving it is another. It is not promises that made couple last forever, it's the chemistry, the heart, and the faith. 'He' assured that he loves you and vowed to be with you forever, but why is it that just simply on memories, 'he' thinks that he loves his ex slightly more than he loves you? Each and everyone of us have only one heart, can we split it into two? We will die. Saerie, I hope you listen to me, i don't think you should wait for this guy at all, it's time to move on. There's a better life ahead of you. Why should you wait for a guy that had said and assure you that he loves you only and to tell you later he loves his ex more? He is not worth the wait. Even if he wants to patch it back with you, i advice you, do not do it. Additionally, you do not have to hate him. Hating him will waste your time thinking about him. Let me tell you a small part of my private life.
I'm with this guy. Do you know, we are like enemies. We quarrelled often and even fight before in the past. But still, we can't separate from each other. If we are separated, our lives would be a mess.I trusted him very very fully on only one thing, he only has his eyes for me and no other girls. See the blue colour? --only one thing--. We had gone through hard times. 1st time, i gave up. He never gave up on me. He win me back again and again. Now, next year, we will be getting happily engaged. I sometimes think of my exs too, those i thought i had love alot, but, though i miss the times we were back then, i know it, i don't love them as what i had thought so in the 1st place. (that's it)
Sometimes, people ask, 'why is it that no one is the right one for me?' The answer is, for these people, not that there isn't any true love for them, is the time not yet ripe. Get ahead with your life. Concentrate on your studies. Of course, not forgetting to have fun and play hard too. Once again, do not wait for 'him'. It is not worth of your precious minutes. And, remember, think before you act. Do not get yourself in the 'pit' again. One fall is enough, you wouldn't like another fall right? So be smart, think smart.
GOD created Adam and realised that he had to create another female being, or else, there will be no generations. So he pick a pair of bone from Adam and created Eve. Do you know that girls have a pair of bone more than guys? So, i wish you all the best and hope that the one and only guy will find his missing 'bone' and that is you. =) I'm always ready to listen to you if you had other worries.
Blessed be, Fate . |
