| Human Development Transactional Analisys |
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| Parenting |
| Does the word sound strange? I was really troubled and at the same time fascninated when I read the first time about Transactional Analisys and about Parenting. According to the concept, pretty much all our actions, decisions and choices that we make as adults go through the filter of Drivers, Injectives and Permissions given to us as children A Driver is a pattern of behaviour when confronted with regular and all kinds of situations. It actually drives us in the journey of life. An Injective is a non-permission,something that is forbidden to us as children and as we grow up which will be the main obstacle in taking chances and assuming risks as adults. A Permission is the opposite if the injective. Is the allowances that we give ourselvers when confronted with situations, choices that we have to make and opportunities. Through these three things our personality takes shape and actions take life. Exericizing them develops or leaves undeveloped the Parent, Adult or the Child in us. Consequenlty too many injectives or serious and dramatic ones can through us into the Child(when always unadapted to situations and complaining) and Parent(when always we blame someone else for things that happen to us) state. Living too much under drivers like Be Perfect, will insure us development and social succes and recognition but it will prevent us from feeling and tasting life. Too many permissions like Everything is possible and Just do it! might cause our injury, physically or mentally. The point I'm trying to make is that fact that our actions so far, all our decisions were influenced by these drivers, injectives and permissions. And if we're not satisfied and content with our life so far, acting on these influencers we might just RE-PARENT ourselves, start changing the structure, our internal structure, from within, to change only after the external structure - how our life looks, the success or significance that we have and how happy we are... Do you care to try...I know I am! Let me know at geluandrei@yahoo.com |
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