Our Bigs

There are five bigs in our group--Charity, Deborah, Drew, Mary, and Rachel. Our main responsibility is to see to the well-being of our littles, middles, and teens. For this reason, we bigs view ourselves as parent figures in our group, although technically we are more like siblings and cousins. For more information on this, see the system maps linked on our Meet Our Family page.

We bigs act as helpers or protectors and are assisted in these roles by young people of various ages. We take care, though, to see each of our group members as an individual person and not merely as someone filling a role.

Our two Formless Ones, ~Light~ and Gideon, each have no particular age, and while we consider them to be adults in terms of level of development, they are not directly active in our day-to-day life and therefore are not part of our internal council. Instead, they operate on a subconscious level.

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