Strangers In The Box

Come look with me inside this drawer,
In this box I've often seen,
At the pictures, black and white,
Faces proud, still, and serene.

I wish I knew the people,
These strangers in the box,
Their names and all their memories,
Are lost among my socks.

I wonder what their lives were like,
How did they spend their days?
What about their special times?
I'll never know their ways.

If only someone had taken time,
To tell who, what, where, and when,
These faces of my heritage,
Would come to life again.

Could this become the fate,
Of the pictures we take today?
The faces and the memories,
Someday to be passed away?

Take time to save your stories,
Seize the opportunity when it knocks,
Or someday you and yours,
Could be strangers in the box.

Author Unknown
If you could see your ancestors all standing in a row, 
Would you be proud of them, or don't you really know?
Some strange discoveries are made in climbing family trees. 
And some of them you know do not particularly please.
If you could see your ancestors all standing in a row,
There might be some of them perhaps you would not care to know.
But there is another question which requires a different view,
If you could see your ancestors, would they be proud of YOU ?!
Pondering
The average life expectancy in the United States was forty-seven.

Only 14 percent of the homes in the United States had a bathtub.

Only 8 percent of the homes had a telephone. A three minute call from Denver to New York City cost eleven dollars.

There were only 8,000 cars in the US and only 144 miles of paved roads.

The maximum speed limit in most cities was 10 mph.

Alabama, Mississippi, Iowa, and Tennessee were each more heavily populated than California. With a mere 1.4 million residents, California was only the twenty-first most populous state in the Union.

The tallest structure in the world was the Eiffel Tower.

The average wage in the U.S. was twenty-two cents an hour. The average U.S. worker made between $200 and $400 per year. A competent accountant could expect to earn $2000 per year, a dentist $2500 per year, a veterinarian between $1500 and $4000 per year, and a mechanical engineer about $5000 per year.

More than 95 percent of all births in the United States took place at home.

Ninety percent of all U.S. physicians had no college education. Instead, they attended medical schools, many of which were condemned in the press and by the government as "substandard."

Sugar cost four cents a pound. Eggs were fourteen cents a dozen. Coffee cost fifteen cents a pound.

Most women only washed their hair once a month and used borax or egg yolks for shampoo.

Canada passed a law prohibiting poor people from entering the country for any reason, either as travelers or immigrants.

The five leading causes of death in the U.S. were:
1. Pneumonia and influenza
2. Tuberculosis
3. Diarrhea
4. Heart disease
5. Stroke.

The American flag had 45 stars. Arizona, Oklahoma, New Mexico, Hawaii and Alaska hadn't been admitted to the Union yet.

Drive-by-shootings -- in which teenage boys galloped down the street on horses and started randomly shooting at houses, carriages, or anything else that caught their fancy -- were an ongoing problem in Denver and other cities in the West.

The population of Las Vegas, Nevada was thirty. The remote desert community was inhabited by only a handful of ranchers and their families.

Plutonium, insulin, and antibiotics hadn't been discovered yet. Scotch tape, crossword puzzles, canned beer, and iced tea hadn't been invented. There was no Mother's Day or Father's Day.

One in ten U.S. adults couldn't read or write. Only 6 percent of all Americans had graduated from high school.

Some medical authorities warned that professional seamstresses were apt to become sexually aroused by the steady rhythm, hour after hour, of the sewing machine's foot pedals. They recommended slipping bromide -- which was thought to diminish sexual desire -- into the woman's drinking water.


Marijuana, heroin, and morphine were all available over the counter at corner drugstores. According to one pharmacist, "Heroin clears the complexion, gives buoyancy to the mind, regulates the stomach and the bowels, and is, in fact, a perfect guardian of health."

Coca-Cola contained cocaine instead of caffeine.

Punch card data processing had recently been developed, and early predecessors of the modern computer were used for the first time by the government to help compile the 1900 census.

Eighteen percent of households in the United States had at least one full-time servant or domestic.

There were about 230 reported murders in the US annually.   
100 YEARS AGO
(1900)
Moments
By Max Griffith

Who can catch a moment
And hold it in their hand?
A golden precious slice of life
Yet just a grain of sand.

A grain of sand so precious, though,
That no wealth for it we’d trade.
But hold it closely to our breasts
This moment that God has made.

Yet each of us have moments
We hold in memories dear
Moments that we’ve plucked from life
And carefully placed in here.

As years go by we slowly add
To what we have inside
Till memory after memory
in our hearts reside.

And when we’ve reached those winter days
That tell our time is near.
We share these precious moments
With those who’ve sense to hear.

Yes, there are those who’ll laugh and jeer,
And say they do not care.
But there are those who’ll linger close
And treasure what you share.

So keep your legacy intact
And hold your memories dear
For those who know of their great worth
and cherish what they hear.
Should We Forget
By Max Griffith

Some say its best not to remember
what happened yesterday
they say the past is dead and gone
its better to leave it that way

Should we forget that we live each day
by the grace of God above
who keeps this mighty universe in place
with the power of his love

Should we forget the young men
who've died to keep us free
in some strange and hostle land
far across the sea

Should we forget the moms and dads
who gave us life so dear
and did their best to teach us right
as long as they were here

Should we forget the joys we've known
as we've traveled thru this life
or even forget the tears we've shed
in times of trouble, sorrow and strife

No, we can't forget these things
we must remember them all
for on these we've built our lives
on these we stand or fall

There have been times so drear
we wouldn't want to see again
times that have wrenched our souls
with grief, sorrow and pain

But in these times, we learned to stand
and bear the awful blow
in these times, we found the strength
to rise above our woe

So let those who will
forget what life's about
let them relive their mistakes
and face the future with doubt

We'll go on secure
in the knowledge that we
have life's precious pearls locked inside
where remembering is the key
If I Only Knew Your Name
By Ramona (Griffith) Phipps

I will never touch your hand
Nor gaze upon your face.
I wish I knew your name
But you are gone without a trace.

You lived your life on earth
And gave birth to my forebear.
Now your memory is gone.
Someone didn't take time to care.

For those who didn't pass it on
You thought nobody would forget
You knew who your granddaddy was
But didn't have time to talk about it just yet.

Vanishing into the dust
Is the future for all man.
I will continue to search for you
And find out all I can.

I will never know what you were like
Or if we looked the same.
But a part of you would not be gone
If I only knew your name.
"Memories"