+++ THE LADY'S IN CHARGE +++
You are there primarily for the ladies enjoyment so she calls the shots.
+ She decides when she wants to start and when she wants to stop, if she just wants to be with one partner or with more than one and when she wants to take a break.
+ If you are having sex and the lady asks you to cum or finish you should oblige her, if you're not ready then just make way for someone else.
+ If you are receiving oral without a condom, you must tell the lady if you are about to cum. You must let her decide what she wants to do next.
+++ CLEANLINESS & HYGIENE +++
It hopefully goes without saying the guys need to be clean, hygienic and smelling nice. Plenty of after-shave and deodorant, no garlic breath, BO or smelly dicks! If you've been wearing a condom please wash before you start playing again - there are few worse tastes!
+++ SENSITIVITY +++
Be considerate and sensitive to the lady's mood and responses. Most ladies are put off by a guy they don't know very well being rough with them. So it's best to assume she wants gentle/sensual foreplay, unless she indicates differently. However, don't get boring either. You might think you're doing a good job demonstrating your staying power, but if the lady isn't obviously enjoying it then she's either getting bored or she's wondering if she's really doing anything for you.
+++ VARIETY +++
Don't be a bore. The ladies come to the party with the
expectation of playing with a variety of guys. If you really hit it off with a lady that's fine, but don't then stick to her like a leech. Remember she would probably like the opportunity to play with someone else and there
are other guys who would also like the opportunity to entertain her.
+++ SAFE SEX +++
Always play safe. You must always wear protection during penetrative sex, even if it's done playfully during foreplay. If you get
the slightest hint that you have a problem with your condom, like you think
it's torn or isn't fitting properly, you should stop immediately. If you
notice another guy looking like he's about to get carried away and play
without a condom you should also remind him to put one on as well.
NOBODY SHOULD EVER TAKE OFFENCE AT BEING REMINDED ABOUT SAFE SEX.
+++ STR8 vs BI GUYS +++
Theese parties are strictly straight for the guys. Some guys are happy to be bisexual in a party situation but just as many guys are not. So to avoid any unwelcome incidents there is no bi male action at these parties. (We'll consider holding an all bi party sometime in the future if we get requests.)
---- TO OUR COUPLES ----
Please remember our parties are essentially a "ladies night" party and not a
couples party. We're always glad to welcome couples to our parties but we do ask that you essentially behave as singles for the evening. If you generally have limits on how far one or other partner should go with the
opposite sex, or if you prefer to go off to a private room to play as a
couple with just one additional guy or girl, then our parties are probably
not for you.
---- GENERAL RULES ----
+ Designated rooms - depending on the numbers and the venue we will usually
identify specific rooms for the party and those that we would prefer not to be used. Why? To create the right atmosphere with the smaller numbers of
people we invite, it is sometimes appropriate to limit the activity to just
one or two rooms, otherwise people get spread too thinly and the party atmosphere we are trying to create gets lost.
+ Props and toys - feel free to bring along anything that aids pleasure but nothing that inflicts harm. If you do, please show us on arrival to avoid any surprises. But no personal cameras or video cameras, see below rules on photos.
+ Dress code - there is no dress code as such. Guys, try and impress the ladies.
Or you should at least look like you are going to a party. Ladies, you can
wear something comfortable or you can dress to thrill! It's up to you, it's your party!
+ Photos & video - Many of us like to take photos or to be videoed, including us. But this needs to be done in a way that protects everyone's privacy. If you want to take pictures/video we only allow them to be taken with the ONE "house" digital camera or the ONE "house" video camera. Everyone is free to use them on the night and we have masquerade masks available for those who want. Otherwise please avoid taking direct facial shots where possible (it makes editing easier too). We'll supply edited pictures or video to those who attended afterwards upon request BUT ONLY TO THE PARTICIPANTS.
+ Drinks - bring whatever you want to drink and anything else besides will
relieve the pressure on the host's pocket.
+ Smoking - our parties are non-smoking although not exclusively for non-smokers.
+ Drugs - please don't bring anything onto the premises that can get you arrested for using or supplying.
+ Uninvited guests - please don't pass on the details of our party to anyone else or invite anyone that we haven't agreed to. This is a private party in a private home.
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