A mother is she who can take the place of all others, but whose place no one else can take.
I'll Stand by You
The Pretenders

Oh, why you look so sad
Tears are in your eyes
Come on and come to me now

Don't be ashamed to cry
Let me see you through
Cause I've seen the dark side too

When the night falls on you
You don't know what to do
Nothing you confess
Could make me love you less

I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you

So, if you're mad, get mad
Don't hold it all inside
Come on and talk to me now

Hey, what you got to hide
I get angry too,
Well I'm alot like you

When you're standing at the crossroads
And don't know which path to choose
Let me come along
Cause even if you're wrong

I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you

Take me in into your darkest hour
And I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you.

And when, when the night falls on you baby
You're feelin' all alone
You won't be on your own

I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you

Take me in into your darkest hour
And I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you.
My mom, my believer, an angel...
If tears could build a stairway
and memories were a lane
I would walk right up to heaven
no farewell words were spoken
no time to say goodbye
you were gone before i knew it
and only God knows why
my heart still aches in sadness
and secret tears still flow
what it meant to lose you
no one will ever know...

Mommy I will love you always
God saw you were getting tired
And a cure was not to be,
So he put his arms around you
And whispered, "Come to me."
With tearful eyes we watched you,
And saw you pass away.
Although we loved you dearly
We could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands at rest
God broke our hearts to prove to us,
He only takes the best
Jill Ann Kavanaugh August 23, 1945 - September 26, 1994
You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you. That's were I'll be waiting. - Tinkerbelle ("Hook")
I always thought that when it rained it was because angels cried because they knew someone had passed away. Now I know they don't cry for those who have died, they cry because they feel the pain of those who are left behind.

The day my mom died, the minute, the second she died...it poured.  Like the Heavens just opened up. There is no pain in Heaven, and the only tears are the ones on earth.
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It can’t be nine years…
It just can’t.
Everyday I wake up and no matter what,
You’re the first one I think of.
When I think that I can’t possibly
Make it through the day,
You’re the one that gets me through
Because I know you’re with me.
And when I talk, you listen…
So, it can’t be nine years.

It was just yesterday,
When I left for school,
The smile was affixed to your face,
And not to worry because everything
Was going to be okay.
And I know that could not have been
Nine years ago.

Time is a funny thing,
Because even though it seems like yesterday,
It’s really been nine years…
Since I last held your hand,
Since I last saw you,
Since I last told you I love you.
And no matter how much time goes by,
I’ll always miss you,
I’ll always love you,
And you’ll always be my mommy.

I Love You Always Forever,
Heather
There's so much more to add, so much more to say. My mom was angel on earth and now she watches me from Heaven. I cannot express in words the kind, friendly, awesome person she was. Her smile could light up a room, and just remembering her smile makes me smile. I do miss her more than anything, but I know cancer isn't hurting her anymore and she's free. Even though she's no longer in my vision, she's forever in my heart.
It Was Her Song that got me through it all and will carry me through
My mom's last birthday in 1994
My mom in Florida - March 1994
My mom and me - my  birthday (1994)
Mom at a friend's cottage - 1992
Christmas Eve 1986
And when you finally fly away
I'll be hoping that I served you well
For all the wisdom of a lifetime
No one can ever tell
But whatever road you choose
I'm right behind you, win or lose
Forever Young
8 Year Memorial Page
Christmas 1984