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Our world today is beset by so many problems - ALL of which we can be a part of the solution. Streetkids  
    
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Streetkids    Once while travelling in Australia, I met a woman who asked me about the Philippine streetchildren.   Feeling the compassion and sense of urgency in her voice to get help to these kids, I felt ashamed at my being so insensitive to them, being exposed to them all my life.   I realized how my being a Christian in the only Christian nation in Asia and it being one of the poorest didn't go together since Christians are supposed to provide for each others' needs - seeing as we are all brothers and sisters.

The Philippines is said to have a population wherein 65% live in substandard conditions -this means they don't always have 3 meals a day, or don't have secure housing or don't have jobs.

Be My ShelterA year after I met this woman, I met another man back here at home who did something to ease the life of the streetchild.  He stopped working despite having a family of his own, got support from people, and started a feeding center - actually better called a 'caring center' for these kids right in front of his own apartment.   For the past 2 years, the kids would come every 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. to get a meal a day.  Since that's all he could afford at the moment.

He picks up the leftover food from a leading restaurant at 11 o'clock at night everyday for the meal the following morning.  Then he cooks it for the kids the next day.  All this he does by himself since his wife has to take care of their two kids.

This Christmas, a few of my friends and I formed a team called Heart and Bowl and we went over and helped him out to have a good time with the 40 or so kids who look at him now as an older brother figure.  We had some games, they danced for us, we sang for them and ate with them.  It was a good time to be with these kids who really had no one to turn to for security and for love.  (For things we learned from this experience, click here.)

Still, every day, they spend 80% of their time on the streets - and only 15% at that caring center.  Most of their time is spent begging, selling Sampaguita, fighting for the lives at home because of abusive parents and trying to ward off the temptation of sniffing Rugby, or prostitution.

I guess helping the streetkids has to be a way of life for all Christians - like the woman I met on the train and the man who made this his life's work - we have to make a conscious effort to do our part in raising the standard of living for these kids.

I believe in the saying that to help the poor, you don't just give them fish but make them fishermen.

Education is one of the major solutions to the problem of poverty. Because, the children are the ones who suffer the most and who can benefit the most from the changes we can effect.

 

Eat my FoodThat's why I looked around for people and organizations who help the underprivileged. One of the best groups that does this kind of work is World Vision.  World Vision Development Foundation is part of a worldwide partnership of Christians engaged in relief, development and advocacy work. They started in 1957 here in the Philippines but they've been actively serving more than 100 countries already.

They help people help others by providing livelihood projects through community-based development programs, and through a child sponsorship program. Here you can get to know your 'child' through correspondence, and you won't feel as if you're helping a stranger to finish school. 

If you want to know more about them, you can email: ruffy_bondoc@wvi.org or visit their office at #55 Maginhawa St., UP Village, Diliman, Quezon City, PHILIPPINES Telephone #s (632)9270676 to 79 Don't be Boxed

Nationwide Toll-free no. 1-800-1-888-0901

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How to Help Some Streetkids:

If you live in the Philippines and would like to volunteer in caring for streetkids with my friend, and you live in the Quezon City area, you can send an e-mail to hecaresfoundation@gmail.com for more information.  You can also help streetkids by volunteering at Fa. Rocky's Tuloy Foundation if you live in the Makati area.  Visit their site http://www.tuloy.org for more information.
Join organizations which have alleviating poverty as their main agenda.  Ex. World Vision, Heart and Bowl, Caritas, and others.  There are loads and loads of these out there (like in your parish).  Our community Ligaya ng Panginoon has an outreach called Tahanan ng Panginoon (House of the Lord) which serves depressed urban areas.  Pick one nearest you!
Sponsor the education of a street kid or kids.
It's not advisable to give money to streetkids since many of them belong to crime syndicates.  Food is better but it should be the kind that can be eaten right away.  Some kids are punished when they receive toys.  It is better to work with socio-civic groups who have ongoing support for the kids. 
Donate old clothes, toys, books, and food for them.
Pay your taxes, and pay your workers the right wages.  This will improve the quality of life of many and will eventually benefit those who need it most.
Pray for the poor to find jobs, to be provided opportunities - and also pray for those of us who have more to have hearts willing to give.
Read "Can You Hear the Heartbeat" by Dave Andrews.  It is a book for anyone striving to be a true blue Christian and poses a challenge to each of us.  It can be found in National Bookstore branches, OMF Literature (776 Boni Ave., Mandaluyong, M. Mla.) or Word of Joy outlets (Unit 1, 127 Don Alejandro Roces Ave., Quezon City or by email them for details. Back to Top

Things We Learned From Serving the Kids
(Contributions from the Heart & Bowl Team)

I learned that....

1. From Angie:
I learned that God had given us so much and He only asked us to give a very small part of it to make someone happy.

2. From Ken:
I was not involved in H & B except in a vicarious way. What I saw, however, is how much can be done with a little inspiration and a willingness to work. People are willing to give and to serve; they often need to have someone else take the lead and to point out how.

3. RIA's side 0=)....
GIVING and sharing is not a business concept--it doesn't involve getting returns from your investment, or making sure that the clients" /recipients are worthy of the costs and expenses. GIVING and SHARING is all about God's generosity which cannot be helped but be passed on.....

4. Tweet learned that:
Seriously, I didn't realize that so many people just need an opportunity to show they are willing to do their share of helping out. It kind of reaffirms my faith that people are basically good and are also concerned with the plight of others.  On the other hand, I saw that guys can actually be pretty handy in the kitchen (y'know, throwing the trash, opening sacks of rice, potatoes and pork, counting rubber bands and styro boxes, etc, etc.). They seem discover their "feminine side", and display an amusing eagerness to prove to the female species that they can actually work in a woman's territory. Talk about a fish out of water! hehehe!

the kids eating5. Tina wrote:
"The thing that I learned during our H & B is that caring for the poor is vital for our identity as Christians. If we do not take care of our poor, in whatever way we can, no matter how small, we will have a desensitized faith which lacks power and conviction."

6. from Sharee:
I learned that if you ask someone to fry 310 eggs in one time, he or she will possible not be able to eat another egg again in her whole life... ha, ha, ha!

7. from Flor Sy:
I learned that GOD has a way of bringing people together to do good for the less fortunate ones. Praise the Lord!

8. yeh says:
I learned that a little effort at sharing goes a long, long way!

Email us today to be a part of Heart and Bowl.

Building Homes for the Poor:

This March 1999, I was blessed to be part of Habitat for Humanity's 1999 Work Project.  This is the program supported by ex-president Jimmy Carter and his wife Rosalyn, where volunteers from all over the world, help to build houses for the poor.  Here in the Philippines, just last week, around 10,000 volunteers signed up to build 250 houses simultaneously in 6 sites around the country. 3,000 came from abroad and around 7,000 were Filipino volunteers. 

I was assigned to help build in the Maragondon, Cavite site called "Isaiah Ville" where 130 houses were built in the week.  I was working in house numbers 129 and 130.  Along with me was were my 2 sisters, brother-in-law, and my dad.  I could say it was one of the most fulfilling experiences in my life.

Initially I thought I might be more of a nuisance rather than a help, being unskilled in construction work and all, besides, I look quite frail and haven't been regularly exercising so I was a bit fearful I'd be in the way.  But surprisingly and quite miraculously really, I was energized beyond words to do the work!   With only a small sandwich for breakfast, and lots of water (it was soooo hot), I had all I needed to lift hollow blocks, 2x4x14 planks of wood back and forth from the houses to the supplies area, ... real masonry work!

Everybody had a smile for you despite the hard work that had to be done all in a week's time.  Total strangers would talk to you and encourage and help you with your work too.  It was really a wonderfully enriching time for everyone there.

The special memories I have of the time I spent at the site wouldn't be complete without my mentioning the new friends I made on the spot - the Singaporean Baptist church group - who were so hardworking and dedicated in their work.   I'm sure they weren't the type who were used to this kind of work but they gave it their all, really doing their best, even if they had to spend for their accomodations and got really tired during the trip.  Mike and Joy too,   were very inspiring in how they worked and shared their lives with us during that short time.  Mike, an American, has been in 6 Habitat projects and  sponsors 14 children  for Christian Children's Fund and Children International.  And more than that, he has a personal relationship with them and makes it a point to help people in need.

It was heartwarming to know these good people, who didn't have to do what they were doing, but were doing it, and doing it joyfully and with big hearts full of love for these people. 

We also met the future owners of the house and they were able to express their joy at receiving a beautiful home which they also helped build. 

If you would like to take part in an ongoing build, visit Habitat's Home page - http://www.habitat.org to learn more about their local and worldwide projects.
For Philippine volunteers- email NOW at volreg@habitat.org.ph  

Random Acts of Kindness:Don't forget to Smile!

I am looking for ideas to put here - basically some ways to make someone smile like -pay the toll of the person behind you or send a bouquet of flowers to someone who deserves it, examples like that.  If you have a suggestion, e-mail me at and I'll post it up here.  If you don't want me to mention your name, just say so.  Thanks.

Pick up someone else's trash.
Give an encouraging, "You did a good job!" note.
Add a 'surprise note' in someone's bag saying a sincere thought like, "I'm proud of you!" or "I thought of you today."
Do someone's chores unexpectedly.
Buy dessert for your family for no particular reason or special occasion.
Visit an old people's home, making special cards or banners with nice inspiring thoughts or messages that they can post and remind them of your visit.
One day, pray for all birthday celebrants whether you know them or not.
Get up early one day and thank the newspaper carrier for a job well done
Volunteer for an orphanage.  Cribs in Marikina is a good one and they always need a helping hand, specially on weekdays and Saturday afternoons.  The kids just need someone to hug.
Take CPR and first aid courses.  There's one by the Red Cross, near the Quezon City hall.  I suppose you can find a course near your area.  You never know when you can save a life.
If the church choir sings well, tell them so, even if you don't know them well.
Plant a tree - this will benefit everyone on your street and generations beyond.
Encourage your parish priest, minister or community leader when they give good sermons or lead well.
Mow someone else's lawn - just be sure it really should be mowed..
Write, email or phone the TV show that does great work in their productions - mentioning what you like about the show and encouraging them to keep at it.
Bring a roll of toilet paper and leave it at the cubicle in the mall which has run out.
Cut out articles for friends who may need it for their work or concerns.
Give the postman or newspaper delivery boy a slice of cake, a candy bar or something nice to munch while he's doing his rounds, just to know he's appreciated.

 

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