...and more thoughts



 
failures...
Many of us grow up thinking of mistakes as bad, viewing
errors as evidence of fundamental incapacity.
This negative thinking pattern can create a
self-fulfilling prophecy, which undermines the
learning process. To maximize our learning
it is essential to ask: "How can we get the most
from every mistake we make?"


life speed....
Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round, or listened to rain
slapping the ground? Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight, or
gazed at the sun fading into the night?  You better slow down, don't
dance so fast, time is short, the music won't last.
Do you run through each day on the fly, When you ask "How are you?", do
you hear the reply? When the day is done, do you lie in your bed, with
the next hundred chores running through your head?  You better slow
down, don't dance so fast, time is short, the music won't last.
Ever told your child, we'll do it tomorrow, and in your haste not see
his sorrow? Ever lost touch, let a good friendship die, 'cause you never
had time to call and say "hi"? You better slow down, don't dance so
fast, time is short, the music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere, you miss half the fun of getting
there. When you worry and hurry through your day, it's like an unopened
gift thrown away.  Life is not a race, so take it slower, hear the music
before the song is over.


 
Responsible
I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the
worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude
toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. Bad
things do happen; how I respond to them defines my
character and the quality of my life.
I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the
gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain
and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself.


Happiness
Happiness is a butterfly which, when pursued,
is always beyond our grasp,
but, if you will sit down quietly,
may alight upon you.
                   -Nathaniel Hawthorne
 


Courage
The greatest test of courage on earth is to bear defeat without losing heart.
                   -Robert G. Ingersoll