HELP A MOM!

PLEASE!
Wish so many charities in this world today, how can you know if your money is going into one that is legitimate, and how much of your money goes to the process instead of the people you want it to go to? 
I am a white female American and who better to help out???  Your money won't be going to foreigners, terrorists, or even a drunk! 
About me

I am a mom of 2 beautiful boys ages 4 and 6.  I believe it is very important to be home with my kids and that is why I am here for them every day when they get home from school.  I have worked as a preschool teacher at a church preschool.  I also sell things on ebay to make money.  I designed a website for my church and that has really been quite an experience for me.  I have really enjoyed doing it and would like to start my own business someday building websites for small businesses.  I don't really have any idea on where to start with something like that, but if you'd like to help or offer any ideas, please e-mail me.  My e-mail address is
helpamom2003@yahoo.com.   I also love to play Soccer!  I started playing when I was about 9 years old and haven't stopped since.  I love sports, my family, my country and God!  I was born a Catholic but ended up a Presbyterian (that's a whole other story in itself). 

My dream
My dream is to have a house for my kids and dogs.  Did I mention I have 2 dogs?  I love dogs.  We live in a small townhouse right now and my dogs have a yard that is about 20 feet by 12 feet.  They definitely need a yard.  Last Christmas, my son told me he wanted a swing set for Christmas.  My dream is to have a house with a yard big enough for a swing set.  Nothing big, 3 bedrooms so we each have our own, a decent size kitchen (I love to make cookies), and a family room next to the kitchen (so I can enjoy my kids while I make those cookies).  My kids are my world and I would love for them to grow up in a house.  Please help me if you can!

How you can help
This is where you come in.  Do you have a dollar or two to spare?  Even if you don't, you can help!  You could even make a buck or two!  When I started selling on ebay a few years ago, I ran into this website called Paypal.  Paypal is an on-line payment service.  Originally it was a way for me to accept credit card payments on ebay.  The great thing about Paypal is that they give you $5 for signing up!  If you've never used Paypal, why not sign up now and get your $5?  You can do that by clicking on the link below.  It is fast, safe and secure!  Almost everybody on ebay uses it and it is a great service!  There!  Now you have a buck or two (even more than that) to send me to help me realize my dream!  If you will do this, you are helping out a very honest, family loving, nice person! 
I accept payment through PayPal!, the #1 online payment service!
LINKS I LIKE

Pogo - Online games, this site is lots of fun, and it's free!

Ebay - Selling things on ebay is one of my favorite things to do.  It's also a great place to find anything you may be looking for.

Yahoo - A great all around site with a very useful search engine.  The free fantasy football league is fun too!  Go Skins!!!