I don't know whether you ask for God or not ,but I heard a message from forward letter.Let us see , I asked God to send me a friends.... He sent you. I asked God to take away my pain. God said, No.It is not for me to take away,but for you to give it up. I asked God to make my handicapped child whole. God said, No.His spirit was whole, his body was only temporary. I asked God to grant me patience. God said, No. Patience is a by-product of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is earned. I asked God to give me happiness. God said, No. I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you. I asked God to spare me pain. God said, No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me. I asked God to make my spirit grow. God said, No. You must grow on your own,but I will prune you to make you fruitful. I asked for all things that I might enjoy life. God said, No. I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things. I ask God to help me LOVE others,as much as He loves me. God said,......Ah, finally you have the idea.