I don't know whether you ask for God or not ,but I heard a message from forward letter.Let us see ,
I asked God to send me a friends....
He sent you.
I asked God to take away my pain.
God said, No.It is not for me to take away,but for you to give it up.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, No.His spirit was whole, his body was only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, No.
Patience is a by-product of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is earned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.
I give you blessings.
Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No.
Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No.
You must grow on your own,but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, No.
I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.
I ask God to help me LOVE others,as much as He loves me.
God said,......Ah, finally you have the idea.