眼睛媒介

一位母親憂心忡忡的帶著十一歲兒子來求醫,因為兒子感到眼睛不適,希望可以找出毛病所在,及早治理。孩子對眼前事物清楚看見,但又忸忸怩怩的說不出不舒服的情況。醫生替病人檢查眼睛後,表示孩子的眼睛十分健康,只是十多度近視而已,無須佩戴眼鏡。

母親聞之如釋重負,歡天喜地哄著孩子,希望令他安心,然而小孩子依然愁眉不展,支吾的扭擰不安,醫生和媽媽都摸不著頭腦。在百思不得其解下,醫生忽然靈機一觸,和小朋友來一個「老友記」式長談,才發現醫生的診斷令男孩無法圓夢。小男孩終於滿臉通紅羞澀地表明緣起:一個小女孩!坐在隔鄰的同班同學最近因視力問題而佩戴了一副眼鏡,所以他也渴望擁有同一表徵。

一副眼鏡除了可以矯正視力外,還可以成為一種溝通媒介,爭取別人認同秈例子比比皆是,只是在媒介上並不囿於一副眼鏡,可能是服飾、語言、行為、音樂或其他特色、興趣,不過最終還是透過這些共同媒介建構一道溝通的橋樑。

香港這個彈丸之地的一個小小角落�堙A有著平凡而溫馨的故事。

撰文:何志平醫生
Post on: Saturday, 02 October,2004

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Eyes  On  Me

原唱歌手:Faye Wong    原曲作曲:植松伸夫    原曲作詞:染谷和美    原曲編曲:濱口史郎

  Whenever sang my songs
On the stage,  on my own
Whenever said my words
Whishing they would be heard
I saw you smiling at me
Was it real or just my fantasy
You'd always be there in the corner
Of this tiny little bar

My last night here for you
Same old songs, just once more
My last night here with You ?
Maybe yes, maybe no
I kind of liked it your way
How you shyly placed your eyes on me
Oh, did you ever know ?
That I had mine on you

Darling, so there you are
With that look on your face
As if you're never hurt
As if you're never down
Shall I be the one for you
Who pinches you softly but sure
If frown is shown then
I will know that you are no dreamer

So let me come to you
Close as I wanted to be
Close enough for me
To feel your heart beating fast
And stay there as I whisper
How I loved your peaceful eyes on me
Did you ever know
That I had mine on you

Darling, so share with me
Your love if you have enough
Your tears if you're holding back
Or pain if that's what it is
How can I let you know
I'm more than the dress and the voice
Just reach me out then
You will know that you're not dreaming

Darling, so there you are
With that look on your face
As if you're never hurt
As if you're never down
Shall I be the one for you
Who pinches you softly but sure
If frown is shown then I will know
that you are no dreamer

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