Royal Romance
Jordan's Jewels

by Stephanie Wilson Chapin


A king and queen's love lights a nation

They live in a kingdom reminiscent of Arabian Nights. Think sheiks, magic lamps, and ancient customs. They are King Abdullah II and Queen Rania of Jordan and their story is incredibly romantic. If you're not sure who they are, you might recognize Rania's name from People magazine's most recent list of the 50 most beautiful people. King Abdullah is the eldest son of the late King Hussein who died of cancer last year and whose wife, Queen Noor, the former Lisa Halaby, was born and educated in the U.S.. Like Hussein and Noor, the love story of Jordan's newest royal couple contains shades of Cinderella. Like Noor, Rania was a commoner who was plucked from obscurity to become one of the most influential and glamorous women in the Middle East.


Ravishing Rania

Queen Rania was born Rania al-Yassin in Kuwait to a doctor and his wife on August 31, 1970. Her family is Jordanian with Palestinian roots. This is significant because about half of Jordan's population is of Palestinian descent, while the other half claim ancestry in ancient Bedouin tribes. The two cultures often clash and Rania's Palestinian background makes her an ideal person to lead and encourage a united Jordan.

After she was educated at English schools in Kuwait, she attended the American University in Cairo where she graduated with a business degree in 1991 — she's not just a pretty face, even though she was voted most beautiful student by her college newspaper. According to Britain's Electronic Telegraph, Rania worked hard and got straight A's when she was at university. As fate would have it, the outbreak of the Gulf War in 1991 would put Rania in Abdullah's backyard just after she graduated. Because of her family's Palestinian roots, they were forced to leave Kuwait during the war (Palestinians were accused of supporting Saddam Hussein during the conflict). Her family chose to settle in Amman, Jordan's capital, bringing Rania ever closer to her destiny.

With a degree in hand, she and 200 other applicants took an exam as part of their application to work for Citibank. She easily ranked at the top and got the job. Rania was also one of the first Jordanians to embrace the Internet so it's not surprising that she took a job marketing computers with a local high-tech firm just five months after starting at Citibank. Soon after this move, her life would change forever at a friend's party where she would meet Abdullah, an interesting man in his own right.


About Abdullah

King Abdullah II was born to the late King Hussein and his second wife, British-born Princess Muna, on January 30, 1962. He was educated in Great Britain and the United States, receiving an extensive military education at the Royal Military Academy Sandhurst in the U.K. (think West Point) and a year of study in international politics and world affairs at Oxford University. While it sounds like an education fit for a future king, Abdullah completed his course of study without that role in mind. Unlike the British monarchy where the line of succession is basically set in stone, Jordan's heirs aren't chosen solely on birth order. A new heir to the throne can be declared on the whim of the current monarch, which is exactly what happened in Abdullah's case.

Just one month before King Hussein's death, he named Abdullah Crown Prince (heir to the throne). Until then, Hussein's brother Hassan was next in line and more than ready to assume the role of king. The change was a bit of shock to Jordanians and rather scandalous — King Hussein made a point of expressing his displeasure with his brother's performance while Hussein was in the U.S. receiving cancer treatment. Because of his extensive military training, Abdullah expected to become Commander of Jordan's armed forces and lead the life of an executive soldier. Likewise, Rania never expected to become Queen when she married him in 1993. Now they are adapting to their new roles together, roles they never expected to face when they began their courtship a little over seven years ago.


The Courtship and Marriage

Before he met Rania, Abdullah had a reputation as a real "ladies' man." As a general in Jordan's army, he relished jumping out of planes, flying helicopters and driving fast cars. She, on the other hand, was quieter, bookish, and the kind of career-driven woman not easily seduced by "princely" machismo.

The couple was introduced by mutual friends at an Amman party in January 1993 and sparks flew. Early in their relationship, Rania and Abdullah were spotted roaring around the desert on his motorcycle and waterskiing on the Red Sea. He seemed to bring her out of his shell and she seemed to tame his wild ways. In a recent interview with 60 Minutes, she said she was attracted to her husband's sense of humor and his lack of pretension despite his royal position. Only six months after that first meeting, they were married on June 10, 1993, in a glittering wedding ceremony that included royalty from around the world.

Today, the couple has two children — six-year-old Hussein and four-year-old Iman, and they're expecting their third child this September. Upon her marriage, Rania quit her job and took up various charitable causes, many of which are related to women. She chairs the Jordan River Foundation, which promotes empowerment and financial independence for women through handicraft businesses. And she heads a foundation that combats child abuse, a problem that is considered taboo in Jordanian society. For his part, Abdullah is following in his father's footsteps in many ways, one of which I find particularly enchanting. Just like King Hussein, Abdullah dresses up in disguise and travels anonymously among his subjects asking them about their lives and problems.

As a couple, Rania and Abdullah have chosen to stay as normal as possible. They still live in the villa they occupied before becoming king and queen, leaving the royal palace to Queen Noor and her children. Apparently, Rania has also been seen with her kids at Amman's Hard Rock Café and the family has been known to dine at the local Howard Johnson's. Rania also makes a point of picking up her children personally from their school whenever she can. People magazine has also reported that Rania and Abdullah enjoy a good episode of Friends and Dharma & Greg every so often. While they aren't exactly like us "common folk," the couple seems charming and intelligent with a touch of glamour that's sure to keep them at the front of the news for many years to come.

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eHarlequin.com Royal Love Hint

Yes, Rania and Abdullah seem to have it all but even the happiest couples can benefit from a little eHarlequin.com advice. Since the king and queen are about to add a third child to their brood, they might enjoy our latest travel piece, Romantic Travel with the Kids [link to feature]. They also seem to enjoy cuddling in front of the TV, so why not pop in one of the romantic movies featured in Romantic Movies. And, finally, Abdullah might want to consider pampering his pregnant wife with one of our indulgences. A foot massage always scores points with a woman in her final trimester.

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