The Ideal Man
This is a glimpse at what I'm looking for in a man.  Granted I'm not finding it, but hey I ain't about to settle so until then Ima do me.

Age 20-26  (just a rough range)
Preferably ethnic (black a plus)
Live within 30 mins (long distance sux)
Should have a car (i am not a taxi service)
Should have a job (nor an ATM)
Should be motivated towards their future (always nice)
Should vote in elections (i'm for real on that)
Exudes confidence (but not cocky)
Fun to be around (spontaneity a plus)
Can make me laugh (secret way to my heart)
Style (personal style that is unique)
A physical attraction (not primary but necessary)
Must be single (i am not playing The Boy is Mine)
Must be gay (not about to be caught up w/ Bi people)
Preferably thin/toned
Straight forward n honest (this ain't tyme for games)
Similar interests (music, politics, etc.)
Can hold an intelligent conversation (still looking for that)
Relationship not based around sex (although I do like sex)
Can hold my interest (a must)
Must have a sense of self n morals
Not an ex-con (it's sad I even have to add this, refer to weblog)
Not a drunk, addicted to drugs, thief, lier, or sketchy  (yall don't know)

I'm not really looking for that much.  Maybe it's the area I live in cos we've got some trifling people out here.  I mean all you meet is people after sex, drugs, alcohol, or money.  I've learned a lot in my days.  I've been engaged n been in relationships to attain  all this knowledge.  The knowledge to see right through your fake ass or realize your objections.  And I can tell you now I'm not a cold hearted bitch...but I will be the first one to deny you n laugh in your face.  Especially when you trying to be all suave n run your game.  I have two contacts to see that shyt man!  I'm looking for a man that can do right n complement me.  A relationship is two fold, half n half.  I don't plan on settling for nothing less neither should you, chile we deserve betta!