All about Honestmind


Welcome. You're here so you obviously want to know more about me. If you want to see pics of me you can go to my PHOTO ALBUM. My name is Wendy. I am a 39 year old single mother of a beautiful 15 year old daughter. I am a Scorpio and all that it implies.  If you follow astrology you will know that it means I am fiercely loyal to those I love, extremely passionate and hell on wheels when I am pissed off. :)   I stand 5'6" tall, I have long reddish brown hair, a smile that will make you smile back and green eyes that are hypnotic (or so I have been told). I am very romantic, funny, affectionate, faithful, spontaneous, feisty, adventurous, and creative, but I can also be stubborn as hell, in other words a real bitch. I have a great sense of humor and I can certainly make you laugh.  If I learn that I can trust you, you will have my all.  I believe in deep friendships and work hard at being a good friend back.

 I work full time as an Administrative Assistant for a mental health facility.  I also own a small business.  My daughter and my work keeps me very busy.  

I have some very strong beliefs and those beliefs have gotten me through life's trials and tribulations.  I try very hard to stay happy and upbeat at all times.  Life is way to short to be down and sad.  

I am a BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) It took me years to be able to say that comfortably.  America has some fucked up ideas on what beauty is.  Thin, blond hair and blue eyes is considered the all American Beauty.  I think that is total crap.  All women who take care of themselves are beautiful in some way.  There is also the misconception that if a woman is big she is an easy target for men looking for easy ass or a free ride.  I am neither.  I take care of myself and my child.  I expect all grown ups to do the same.  If you don't have a job, if you still live with mom or if you are just an asshole, you might fool me for awhile, but I will figure it out eventually and you will be history.  Just ask the long line of assholes who tried before you.  I NEVER let the bastards get me down! :)

I believe STRONGLY that America is a melting pot. I strive and fight for Interracial Harmony and peace.  Love one another...and we will all benefit from it.