West Coast Juanita kicked me to the curb. The reason?
"You're too special" (insert AIM doorslam.wav)
Now back to that open door...
*drumroll*
Ladies and Gentleman!!! I think we have come full circle. Remember this?:
"This spring, I have begun a quest...a quest to meet HER. Not necessarily the woman of my dreams or the one I would wear a "say no to dick" T-shirt for...just HER. That woman who`s confident enuff to approach me, but not arrogant about it..that one with her own personal style and quirky beauty...feminine but with a `pinch` of butch...just enuff to make me swoon"
Well I'm sitting here thinking about how tomorrow is the first day of spring and how i wrote that there paragraph almost a year ago. And gotdammit, I met her.
Heather.
We met the old fashion way...I was strolling thru Bar Code in NY (an arcade/bar) looking around for one of my favorite games that i heard was there..strictly in nerd mode, not even looking at people. I happened to notice this girl kinda standing there swaying to the music all alone..looking in my direction. I smiled at her and kept walking. Mostly cuz I was thinking more about finding the game and i know how friendly women are and you just can't always tell if they are *really* flirting with you and I wasn't even trying to get rejected when i was in such a good mood
Okay so my game wasn't on that floor...must be upstairs..
So i walk back the same way i came. I did wanna get one more look at her cuz she was fine...just take a mental "photo" and keep walking you know? This time she was staring even harder with a big ass smile...i smiled again but didn't slow my roll. Then i saw the hand motion. She was asking me to come over there!
Let this go down in history as the first time in a loooooooooooong time that i've been hit on by a woman.
I'm surprised i didn't trip and fall on the way over there...I was so nervous. As i approach i notice how small she is...a little petite thing...looks Latina. She couldn't be more than 5 feet 2. If that. And i'm not usually attracted to petite chicks... Long brown hair with a black Kangol cocked to the side. Just fly.
After what seems like an hour, i get over to her and she grabs both of my hands (she's so tiny!!), looks right up into my eyes, and says "Hi pretty. What's your name?"
That's it. I was ready to just pick her up and carry her out of there.
I found out she was in town for the weekend and lives in Philly....her brother is up here so she comes up like every weekend. The whole time we talked, she did not let go of my hand except to write down her phone number. She was hanging out with friends that day and i didn't wanna monopolize her, so i left after a few minutes with promises to call.
The rest of the day i spent lounging, sipping martinis on cloud #5,640.
So far we have gone on one date. We played pool like real dykes (lol) and sat and talked for a really long time. You could hear clicking noises all around us. She's young (22) but mature, smart, agressive, funny, sexy, ambitious...man.
Drawback #1: cigarettes. Yuck!!!!!!!!
She got no tongue at the end of the night. Peck on lips. that's it. We gon have to talk real soon :-)
Drawback #2: Colt 45.
I don't know man...drunk chicks are not cute. She didn't drink during the date but got one on the way home for later. All I know is that if she ever throws up on me, we're over. I draw the line at vomit. (As any self-respecting person should)
But overall, i say things are looking up for me. Finally :-)