3. Actually
it depends on the way you try to be a 'Centre of Attraction'. If you get others
attention by setting a good example for them to follow and they look up to
you, then you deserve to be a 'Centre of Attraction'.
But if you
whine & try to get others pity by telling them that nobody cares for you,
then you are taking a wrong way to get others attention. You may succeed in
getting their pity but they'll always look down upon you & you'll lose
your worth.
4. Well, from what I've observed, it seems to be very difficult for us to keep everyone happy at the same time. The reason is that different people have different opinions about the concerned thing/matter. And generally these opinions also tend to change from time to time due to certain factors like circumstances/certain incidents/certain influences. So, in a group of, let's say, 6 people, even if you've ensured the happiness of 4, the other 2 are going to be unhappy & if you are lucky enough, then they might be unaffected & not sad . If you try for a midway solution, then everyone will be partially satisfied but then again they may feel only satisfied, not happy.