Student Behavior

 

In my teaching experience, I have noticed different behaviors that students exhibit that elicit different feelings from me.  These feelings can be broken down into good and bad feelings.  The following is a list of ten behaviors that elicit my responses.  Five of them bring good responses, and the other five bring bad responses.

Good Responses

1.        The first behavior that I enjoy is excitement.  I like to see students enthusiastic about doing English.  Once when I taught, I used a game for my lesson.  The students had a blast.  They wanted to play again.  When I would see them at Wal-Mart, they would ask me when I was going to let them play the game again.  It made me feel good to know that they were excited about a grammar lesson.

2.      I also like to see comprehension.  Often times, when students do not understand something, they ask for help.  When I go to help them, and they understand it, they get that “Ohhhh!   Cool!” feeling.  It makes me feel good to see them understand a difficult concept.

3.      I also like to see a sense of humor.  When students can make things fun for themselves, they seem to enjoy class better.  A teacher can also use a student’s sense of humor to help teach a lesson. 

4.      I like easy-going students.  Students who do not get uptight about class seem to enjoy it better.  They also seem to learn easier.  Easy-going students are easier to teach, and are more than often, the most creative students in the class.  They can be some of the best students.

5.      My favorite behavior is brought about by the previously mentioned good behaviors. It is a smile.  A smile tells a lot about the way a person is feeling.  It can show the difference between a good attitude, and a bad attitude.  Many times, a smile can completely turn a bad attitude around.  It is the most powerful sign to let the teacher know whether the student is understanding what is being taught.  I like to see a lot of smiles.

 

Bad Responses

1.        I cannot stand a smart mouth.  Oh sure, I can take a little bit of teasing, but blatant, outright, smart-mouthed responses I will not tolerate.  If a student has a problem, then he/she should speak to me with respect.  In turn, I will respect them.  However, if they try to jump down my throat and disrespect me, then I will take action.

2.      I do not like bad attitudes.  Students who are negative about everything are not easy to teach.  When that bad attitude and negativity disrupts my class or that student’s progress, I will have to correct it.  I do not want to have to take time away from class to correct this behavior.

3.      I do not understand why students give up.  I cannot stand to see a student quit because he does not understand the first time.  This discourages me.  When this occurs, I’ll have to spend some extra time with the student.  I do not mind doing that.  However, I cannot help students who automatically think that they will never understand things.  They have to help themselves, first.

4.      I really dislike seeing students who do not care.  They do not do their work, they disrupt class, and they whine when they do not pass.  They do not care if they fail tests, but they refuse to be failed from the class.  Students have to understand that their education is important.  Though they may not realize it now, they will later, and will regret not doing their best in class.  Those students who do not care about what they are doing have to learn that they cannot get by in life by not doing what they need to.  They have to care.

5.      I do not like to see fear.  First of all, I want students to feel free enough to ask me questions.  I want to be able to answer them.  They should not be afraid of me.  I have to make sure that my attitude is good enough that they will feel easy about asking me things.

Secondly, I hope that they will not be scared of the work.  I am confident that students can learn the things that I will be teaching them.  They should not be afraid of making mistakes.

Finally, students should not be afraid of each other. I do not like to see students making fun of one another.  If a student gets an  answer wrong, he is not stupid.  He is only incorrect about that question.  That can easily be fixed.  Students should not be afraid of being ridiculed by other students.  I will not tolerate it.