KIN6WEN'S DAILYdish.
AUGUSTdish. (cont.)

FRIDAY, August 29, 2003
OFF TO CALI... AGAiN. Makin' my 3rd trip to California this year later this evening. I can't believe that I'm going, and I don't even want to go. It's not like I'm going there to hang out in LA and have a blast. No, I'm going to freakin' Riverside --- BORING. Whatever. Well, I'm there not really for leisure anyway, so let me NOT trip. Eh, we'll see what happens.

I started Temptation Island III last night, and I already know that this show is gonna be a whole lotta DRAMA. Man. It's sorta fuqued how they chose like the hottest girls and guys to be on that island. MAD-ness. It was just trife how the "couples" were being all emotional on their "last night together." I wanted to tell them off: "I know ya'll ain't come up in this shit to cry and be all emotional when you KNEW that you were about to come here for some booty...!" COME ON NOW.

Whatever. I'm out, ya'll. See you next month. I'm back Monday night; qwik trip. PaYsH!

THURSDAY, August 28, 2003
T-STORMS UP THE A*HOLE. What's with the sudden surge of thunder storms? It's almost like a pre-cursor to the hurricane season that's on its way up the coast. Yeah, it's about that time of year. Dumb me decided to meet Hel at Tysons Corner last night. I had to drive through the freakin' storms. And let me remind you that people do NOT know how to drive in thunderstorms. Fools be freakin' out left and right. Whatever, yo... just DRIVE. Too bad I didn't buy anything last night. But Helen did, and she CHARGED it! YEAH, BABY! CHARGE THAT BEEYATCH!! *YaHoO* (i'm a sado-masochist when it comes to credit spending... ahahaha!)

One more day till the weekend... counting down... 3-2-1...

WEDNESDAY, August 27, 2003
OCEANAIRE. AHAHAH... Last night we had dinner at The Oceanaire Seafood Room in honor of Mizz Ellen Gumagay's 2%th b-day... *YaY* It was ALL our first experience with The Oceanaire, and it was an awesome one. When you go inside, it's almost like you're in a steam-liner gone chic. Nice place, and impeccable service. Only the best for special occasions, eh?! It was an intimate dinner. We had a veriety of fresh oysters - coming from anywhere like New Zealand, Boston, the Bay (that's chesapeake bay), and Canada. We also had grilled calamari, and we each had bomb entrees. For dessert, our cool-a$$ server, STEPHANIE, hooked us up with a complimentary baked Alaska. OK, this was a different kind of baked Alaska, and she had it "lit" with 151. It was interesting: chocolate cake bottom (which soaked-up the 151), with blueberry ice cream inside a marshmallow-type shell. It was awesome. Jun had the Chilean seabass, Elle had the blue crab cakes, Debz had the dungeness crab louis, G had the halibut, and I had the marlin... VERY great food! That being said: HAPPY B-DAY, ELLEN GUMAGAY! HaPpY wishes for you, hon!!

TUESDAY, August 26, 2003
JUSTIFIED/STRIPPED. I ADMIT, early on this humid morning, that I was one of those "fans" at the MCI Center last night for the Justified/Stripped concert. Don't ask, but I decided to go with my friends, Ellen and Jun, after a somewhat drunken evening at Champps-Pentagon Row last Thursday night. That Friday, we were booked...and last night was the show. We got there a lil late... and headed for the Will Call booth to pick-up our tix. We embarrassingly ran into a few people that we knew, and laughed it up with 'em. All good, all good. We made it to our nose-bleed seats, but luckily we didn't have an obstructed view AT ALL. So it was all GRAVY.

The Black Eyed Peas didn't perform, which was probably why the show got under way at about 8:15pm as opposed to its 7:30pm proposed start time. Xtina (that's Aguilera... ahahah...) explained to us that because of the schedule changes, the BEPs were no longer a part of some of the tour. I think that they might join in again if the tour catches up to its proposed schedule. So anyway...

Christina went first, and she was AWESOME. You know... those TV appearances, commercials, videos, magazine spreads, interviews, and other press junkets give her NO justice WHATSOEVER. It seems like the media is always makin' her to be some kind of crack-whore with a golden voice. But you know what?! The girl has a lot of personality and can perform like a mutha. She's not into the whole "i-can-dance" bit (but her dancers were pretty good), but what was cool was that her show was totally about her ability to do what she does best: SING. Surprisingly, and contrary to reports from other cities, Xtina totally had the crowd from the beginning of Dirrty till her encore performance of Beautiful. I think that Washington, DC likes her, a lot, cause they gave her mad-respect. And she was able to rock the crowd till the very end. My personal favorite part was when she sang two songs popularized by the legendary Etta James. Man, when she sang At Last, it was OVER. She had the whole stadium up-in-arms. DC appreciates them some jazz/blues, and she delivered with that one. She also gave a nod to her Latina culture with a number from her Spanish album, and one of the latin-style tracks from Stripped. That, too, had the crowd. You could hear the audience singin' with her EVERY WORD on most of the songs --- esp. with Fighter, Can't Hold Us Down, her re-vamped versions of Genie In A Bottle, Come On Over and What A Girl Wants, and esp. with Beautiful. The sound of the audience singing along during her encore gave me goosebumps... It was crazy. She came off as real, and was DEFINITELY live. The girl can BELT that voice, man. UNbelievable. She was very gracious for being in DC, and for getting the support that she was getting. From what I understand, there were many "Xtina Converts" after last night. Bring it on, gurrl. You got this sh*t...!

JT was very entertaining, although I didn't know half his songs. I'm not a big fan, HOWEVER, after his beat-boxin' and the whole old-skool thang I gained a new respect for him. His part of the show seemed a little shorter than I had expected, and some parts didn't seem live - but all in all it was entertaining nonetheless. GREAT CONCERT... AHAHAHAH!

Ahhh... the opening of the H&M Flagship here in DC will take place this Friday afternoon. Makin' sure I'ma stay away from THAT. LOL. Oh yah, I'll be leaving for California on Friday. BoOyAw.

MONDAY, August 25, 2003
"HOOKED ON FRIENDSTER" WORKED FOR ME. I have a real problem with Friendster.com ---it's so damn addicting. I've been getting "invited" to join this damn thing for like ages already, but never gave in until about a few months ago. And even then I didn't even bother to mess with it. "Friendster?!" Sounds so cheesy. But the past few days have been weird. Like last night, after I spent time transfering tracks on my CDs to MDs, I signed on Friendster and thought I'd only be on for like 10 minutes MAX. Lemme find out that I was on that damn thang for like 2 hours. Next thing you know, it was all late and everyone, even the freakin' dog, went upstairs to get ready for bed. OhBoO. So much for my productive Sunday. Well, Friendster aside, I did have a productive day. My productive day includes: gym workout, eating, and talking to someone on the phone for at least 10 minutes and laughing my butt off. I think I accomplished all three of those yesterday, so it's gravy. BONUS: making two MDs, cleaning my room (ahem, my sister's old room - ahahah!), and watching this freakin' movie on the Lifetime Movie Network. OK, that was damn embarrassing to admit, but it was a funny movie. I don't think it was meant to be funny, but I found it to be so. This high school girl was like sleeping around, and then everyone started to call her "slut." CLASSIC. It was so poor white trash, but very entertaining. The way these people played it all out was just so WHITE. Not to get racial or anything, but comin' from a predominantly BLACK high school (where the Filipino minority ranks way higher than the caucasian even-more-minor-minority), seeing that stuff on that movie was COMICAL. In my high school, if you were sleepin' around, foolz would load up water guns with their piss and squirt the damn betch. Now how TRIFE is that?! OK, that, or the ex-girl of the guy that the betch slept with would go up to the girl in the morning, slam her up against the locker and be like, "You damn b*tch! I know you was messin' wid mah man, forreal, so I'ma bust yo' ass UP! I'ma STEAL you!" Or some kinda ghetto drama like that. That movie was all about the prissy white chicks passin' the "slut" and jeering and saying, "like ewww!" I mean WHO THE HELL REALLY DOES THAT?! GOSH!! Like I said, GREAT movie!

Saturday was just a mess... a GOOD mess. I had a good day. It was pretty much an "alone time" day. AHAHA. I drove out to a local trife beach to get some sun, and I was only out for like under 2 hours because I was already getting dark. It was gross. So I left, and then I headed over to this mall in Waldorf (it was the closest one - *eh*) to find something. FOUND IT. Then grabbed a veggie burger at BK, then went home. Afterwards, I went to Mass then hit the gym... then came home. It took me like 50 million hours to figure out what to wear to AIR that night. When I finally settled on something simple, I scooped G up and we went to AIR. We found parking (SCORE!), and walked right up. It was my first time at AIR, and I pretty much liked it. It was filled with people - most of which were trying to be so PRETENTIOUS. It was like a cross between LA and MIAMI nightlife meets the northeast swang... You get it?! This one NOT-SO-CUTE white girl came over and sat with her friends at this table next to ours. I hear her tell her friends, "I feel really sexy sitting down, so I'm gonna sit here..." I wanted to laugh so damn hard at that point. But there's more. She then goes, "I feel like 'Sex And The City' drinking and sitting here!" MORTIFYING. I looked at Gina and whispered it to her, and it was over. I had to get up and move. Luckily I got to see a drunken MAE to wish her a happy b-day. I was gonna buy her another drink but she was so AGAINST IT: NO MORE DRINKS!! OK!! Robbie was there, too, with Jaho and Bernz - it was his b-day, too. But Robbie was NOT even close to being phaded. AT ALL. Weird. Not that it's a pre-req to be incessantly drunk on your b-day, but you know. I was feeling the need to be drunk-aSs during my last b-day, but I ended up not even. I had a few vodka tonics, wine, and a rum and coke. OH DUH. That was back when I was afraid to drink because of those weird dizzying/fainting spells I had been having. DAMN!! WHY DID THAT ISH HAVE TO HAPPEN AROUND MY B-DAY!! Oh well. Well, bottom line was that AIR was a nice place...very chic and somewhat pretentious, which is actually what I like. I mean, I personally don't like to be pretentious, but it's funny to see other dumb-aSses be pretentious up the a-hole. Oh, and I saw the Filipino "kids" over on the other end of the club, so me and Gina were like, "oh let's stay on this side..." Sorry, I've got mad-love for my peeps, but let's get real here... that congregating thang is just too high school-ish for my tastes. I've gotta move around; mix and mingle. Well, we weren't feelin' the music nor the scene. It was a nice night to be out, but we were just "eh." Even Mike and Arl left right before we did, then Eric wanted to go home but couldn't find Mae or Dennis. Dude, I hope you found them and got home safe. AHAHHAH...!! So yeah - cool place, but just wasn't feelin' it that night AT ALL. When I got home, my brother looked at me like I was stupid, and I was like, "WHAT?!" He goes, "Do you know what time it is?!" I look at the clock and it read "12:45AM," and I was like, "OH SHIT!" Then Mark goes, "you're home WAYYY too early..." He was right. It was weird. I'm usually out until the wee hours of the freakin' morning, but not that night. All good, I'll have to make that ish up later. I'll def be hittin' up AIR once again, ahahah... I'll make Florence or Helen come out with me so that we can entertain ourselves by laughing at everyone and their mother. So mean.

And now it's MONDAY... Beginning of another work week. No hate, though. I'm gonna see JUSTIFIED/STRIPPED tonight. Dayam. Did I just say that out loud?!

One piece of news... word is that in some hospital out somewhere, some black woman needed her foot amputated or something. I think she needed a new foot, basically. So they told her that they could only give her a "white woman's foot." Apparently, they have more white women's feet (as opposed to black women's feet?!), and that it was cheaper (ie, in her price range). Now HOW jacked is that?! How you gonna tell a sista that she can't get no black foot, and that she can only afford a white one?! UNbelievable. So they ended up giving her a prosthetic. GOSH! Deny a woman a foot, and give her a damn fake one?! What's the world coming to?!

SUNDAY, August 24, 2003
REVOLUTION. I was at Best Buy today, and I was wearing my YFC Conference t-shirt; the one that says "Revolution" on it. Some guys were in line in front of me, and they started asking me if my shirt had anything to do with some duder - I forget the name. But they went on and on about this guy they know who's part of this ministry, and "Revolution" happens to be their mantra. Well, it's not the same ministry, but "Revolution" was the theme this year's YFC Conf. held at UMCP. One of the guys starting asking me if I went to these churches and stuff like that. Then he asked if I was into praise and worship, and I said, "yes." He seemed pleased, and gave a nod. Then he told me that the guy he was talking about started a ministry in college, and even opened a worship area with a SKATE PARK. Now how cool is that?! God is living even among the extreme sports people. *EHEHEHE* Just thought that was VERY interesting...

SATURDAY, August 23, 2003
A LIL' BIT OF GOD TODAY. I know that I rarely touch on my spiritual side on this site. When I first started my Xanga site, and eventually this one, I was unsure how I'd go about sharing my spiritual side. I know that my blogs can be so off-the-wall at times, and my stream-of-consciousness doesn't always linger on my personal notion(s) of God. But truth be told, I am one God-fearing mutha. I've been a part of the Catholic Christian renewal since 1999, and it's an awesome thing. I think I've already learned to be able to distinguish between living life in the renewal "bubble," and keepin' it "real" while being who you are. For the most part, I've been a dry one when it came to my outward faith; this is in recent times, too. But despite that, I've never lost sight of my duties to attend Mass and to worship God in a way that is comfortable for me, and still pleasing to Him. That's when I realized that it's OK to be imperfect, cause as humans we are just that: IMPERFECT. Only God is perfect and infallible, and while we're on this earth we just gotta truck on believing in Him, and lifting up ourselves to Him. Now I'm not saying to go out there and sin like there's no tomorrow, then go to confession later on for absolution. I'm saying that you gotta be true to yourself AND to God. How do you do that, you ask?! Well, that's a day-to-day struggle for everyone, and we each figure bits and pieces of that paradigm as life goes on. But I know one thing --- judging and condemning others for things will NOT get you anywhere, esp. if you - yourself - are a sinner. That's the first step, and I've taken it willingly. I can't be too judgemental over others, esp. if I myself am a sinner. I am just as human as the next person, so all I can do is try to lead by being an example. It doesn't mean that I have to be some leader in church, or a leader in a community, or this or that and blah-blah-blah. It means that no matter where I am or what I do, I've gotta be an example. Some of my greatest friends, many of whom aren't a part of the renewal, are my personal examples. Yes, my friends, you can see God in all people.

Anyway. With that intro out there, let me just tell you about this CD. It's called BLESSED, and it's part of the Hillsong Praise and Worship series. Hillsong is a ministry in Australia; part of the Christian renewal - not necessarily Catholic, but hey, a Christian renewal is a renewal no less. Hillsong is the same ministry that brought us Shout to the Lord, which has become an anthem, of sorts, for Christian ministries the world over. Well, Blessed is equally powerful, and I recommend this CD to anyone who is familiar with contemporary Christian music and/or praise and worship. You can find a copy of it anywhere Christian music is sold.

Anyway, I'm driving around town takin' care of bidness today, and I'm listening to the title track, "Blessed." And all of a sudden, I was suddenly overcome with something... like my throat all choked-up. I was singing along: "Blessed are those who dwell in Your house. They are ever praising You. Blessed are those whose strength is in You, whose hearts are set on our God. We will go from strength to strength, till we see You face to face... Hear our prayer, o Lord God Almighty! Come bless our land, as we seek You, worship You!" It was as if I was having this affirmation that God blesses us no matter what --- no matter where or when we've fallen. And despite the hardships that we go through as human beings, we should at least attempt to build our relationship with God by finding strength in and through Him - and in nothing else. It was empowering for me, and I totally felt that God was speaking to me as I was "worshiping" along with the song in the car. It was a weird feeling. Completely.

OK, so I hope that I didn't weird you out. It's just that we all have the capacity to know God. And I assure you, that if you take that step to know Him...then things can, and will, change for you. Now I'm not saying to lay down your lives and become a social recluse and pray all day. No. I'm saying to live your lives, but with a new focus. Making Him your focus changes things completely. And it's a blessing that only you'll be able to feel and understand fully.

FRIDAY, August 22, 2003
ANOTHER WEEK DOWN. BoOyAw! It's such a great feeling to reach the weekend. Even though I still have the whole work day left to dabble with, it's definitely nothing too unbearable. Friday is the weekend, no matter how you cut it. And today is no different. Whether I'm busy in the office or not won't even phase me, cause once 3:30PM rolls around, I am OUTTA HERE!

I was able to celebrate the weekend yesterday, though. After the gym, I went to Pentagon City with the hopes of "buying" something. But I didn't find anything. *EH* I did try on some frames (for new glasses) and I think I am happy with a pair of Georgio Armani frames... VERY sweet. I also saw a pair of Versace frames, Bvlgari frames, and Prada frames - but I wasn't able to try them on. But so far so good with the Armani ones. I think I'll have to get 'em next month when I "shop" around for new glasses. YaHoO!@! Well, after the not-so-fruitful visit at Pentagon, I went to Pentagon Row to meet Elle and Jun at Baja Fresh. But before that, I ran into Arl in the parking lot. POOR, ARL!! The girl was looking around for a damn parking space forever. That lot SUCKS. I can't stand the parking lot at Pentagon Row. Since she lives like RIGHT there, she should've just WALKED! *HINT! HINT!* Syke... but yeah. Good to see Arl, even if I only caught her tryin' to snag a parking spot. Arl, I'll most likely see you at AIR on Saturday. AHAHAHA!

So, I go to Baja Fresh, and I decide to go healthy. Well, me and Elle both do. Too bad the "healthy" items were like SO low in terms of fat grams, but the caloric intake was INTENSE! It was almost INSANE! But anyway, we sucked it up. I ended up getting the "Side-by-Side" which is a salad with a side of grilled chicken. It was SO good. And I got a side of red beans... Gotta get that fiber! AHAHAH. Good stuff, that Baja Fresh. After dinner, we went to Champps because of Elle's unnerving alcoholic addiction. We had two rounds - I had a rum & coke, Elle had a cosmo, and Jun had an amaretto sour. AHAAH! So we DRANK and talked and laughed and talked and made plans to go see JUSTIFIED/STRIPPED! So now the three of us knuckleheads are gonna go see Justin and Christina (and Black Eyed Peas) on MONDAY NIGHT! HOW EXCITING! No gym for me on Monday night. LOL! I'ma see mah gurrrl get dirrrty!

So last night started my weekend... It was GREAT, what can I say. Tonight should be chill since the ladies headed out to the Bahamas. But hope I get to see some of my other peeps tomorrow night at AIR. Gotta go rep for mah sista - MAE!!!!!@! Ah... Friday's... Gotta love 'em!

SHOUT-OUT to mah BOO, LESLEY. All I gotta say is "Wesley-Lesley..." TOO funny! TOO freakin' FUNNY!! *sigh*

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THURSDAY, August 21, 2003
REALITY TV: sick. I'm sure that many of you would agree that the reality TV bug is pretty sick. It's totally everywhere, and it's just amazing how far these shows will go to make a score with ratings. OK, not that I should talk because I am a firm follower of some of the more interesting shows. I have my favorites, which include the "OG" shows like MTV's Real World and Road Rules. I'm also really into American Idol, Paradise Hotel, and I'm actually looking forward to Temptation Island III. Other shows that I tried to get into, but totally lost interest in, were Joe Millionaire, Big Brother, The Amazing Race, The Bachelor/The Bachelorette, American Juniors, Fame, and the list goes on and on. I'm sorry, but these shows just don't cut it. Even that dumb show, Cupid, is stupid beyond belief. Speaking of stupid, what the hell are they going to do with the upcoming season of Joe Millionaire?! I have a feeling that they're going to pick someone who's terribly ugly, or someone who's just flat out OLD; something cruel like that. But cruel would be Hot or Not? Now that was a stupid show if ever I saw one.

So yeah. Last night me and Marz were watching Paradise Hotel, and WHY were we into it like we were watching 90210 back in high school. EMf*ckingBARRASSING. We're totally INTO it. Then they flashed a commercial about that up-coming show about people who pose/perform as their favorite stars. OK, so that one woman who sings as Celine Dion is quite PRESSED to be singing on top of a fake-me-out Titanic like that. And the gal who sings as Annie Lenox scares me. Whatever happened to Pop Stars anyway? Now THAT was lame... that and Making the Band. P. Diddy thinks he's rollin' big time with his spin on Making the Band, but in all sad reality it's just as DUMB as the FIRST one. Let's get over it, PUFF. I wonder what they're gonna come up with next?!

Reality-shmality aside... I'm not at all excited about the movies that are out right now. I'm shocked as hell that the dumb ass Freddie Kreuger/Jason Voorhies movie is actually toppin' the charts right now. Sick. Sick, I tell you. And I already bitched and moaned about the sequel to Jeepers Creepers. Aaye-yaaah! What is this world coming to?! It's bad enough that Ben and jLO scored LOW with Gigli. At least Pirates of the Caribbean was good. I can't wait for the new Johnny Depp flick with Antonio Banderas and Selma Hayek. That looks good. Aside from that, there's nothing out there that's really makin' me wanna go out and get entertained...not through TV or the silver screen at least. What's going on out there?! HELLO?!?!??!! I'd rather watch a sitcom of my day-to-day life to make me laugh. I swear. I should the sell the rights to my private life just to get a huge laugh. Seriously. I go through the most laughable instances with my family and friends - it's no joke that I'd make a killing out of a My Big Fat Greek Wedding-esque kinda movie. Not that it would revolve around a wedding or anything, but just something Seinfeld-ish. Seriously.

WEDNESDAY, August 20, 2003
YER BLOWIN' ME, BABY. Ahhh... I knew that this non-traffic heaven-ness was way too good to be true. Sh*t!@! But it's all good. It's a preview of what's to come - eh?! Ahhh... Traffic blew, and then I got an e-mail that sorta blew, too. Not going into detail, but I really can't stand when people are persistent about something and have no tact. Do you know what I mean? Like I am trying to secure a "deal" of some sorts (ummm, don't worry - it's not anything illegal. LOL!) for something/someone. Mind you, this is something I don't even care for at the moment. I don't even want to be doing this at ALL, but since I've committed to this early on, I'ma do what I have to do to get this crap done. ANYWAY. So I'm trying to secure this "deal," but I'm feeling like the people I'm doing this for are asking for much more than they're willing to put out (meaning they want more for less money). In an ideal world, sure that would happen with the blink of an eye. But in reality, you gotta "pay to win." It'll cost to get what you want. So with that being said, and also the fact that the person I'm trying to strike the deal with is mad-busy working more than one position in their office, this whole thing is starting to get annoying. Jiggas need to STOP blowin' me, and let things work themselves out - aight?! *SHEESH* Don't let me get ugly up in here, forreal. Do NOT!

On a lighter note, I had a great day yesterday. Work was a breeze, the gym was cool, and I did a lil' grocery shopping before I headed home. When I got home, I was able to fix-up the pics that I uploaded to my hard-drive. Now I need to upload them onto Shutterfly.com. Another day, another time. Tonight I have my plate full. Paradise Island is on, and I gotta keep up... ya' heard?! LOL. I freakin' over-cooked my dinner, tho. I ended up over-baking the fish that I was having for dinner, so when I ate it...it was pretty tough on the teeth. But it's all good. It was HEALTHY! It was GOOD! And NO cream sauce... (ahahah... inside joke...)

Shout-out to mah gurl, Helen, who's cookin'-up dinner for one of her friends tonight. Boo-boo, you KNOW who you have to call for the PERFECT recipes... NOT. You might end up eating like a freakin' whale or something. AHAHHA. Did I ever tell you that I'm mean?! No wait, YOU taught me - remember?!