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How to Divorce an Ex-Lover

The first thing you should do after a long term lover has left is to get rid of the bedding you used together.
Give them away.  Pillows are transformed when you cover them with new linens.  
THe activity of letting go of the physical reminders will help you let go of the psychic reminders as well.

Purify your bedroom by cleaning it thoroughly.
Adding vinegar to the water when you wash your floor, for example, will deoderize as well as de-vibe the room.
Give the space a fresh coat of paint.
If you have carpets, sprinkle some lavender buds on them and leave the buds on the floor for a week before you vaccume.
Finally, change the apperance of your walls by hanging up different pictures and remove old photographs.
Once you do this, you can wait for a waning moon to cast the divirce spell.

Use a gray cloth to cover your altar, because the color gray is associated with nutrality.  
Get two gray candles -  one for you and one for the absent person.
Write your name three times on your candle and his or her name on the other candle.
Set the candles on your altar, near to but seperate from, eachother.
Buy dispelling incnese (which is usually gray) from an occult supply store (see my library for resources)
Light the insence and allow yourself to enter into a psychic space in which you can say good-bye.
Visualize the person turning away from you and visualize yourself turning away from him or her.
Light the two candles and say:

Be gone from my heart (name);
Be gone from me!
The four winds sweep you from my space;
The four fires go out in my heart;
The four directions take you for ever;
The four rainy seasons wash you away.
(repeat three times)

Move the two candles farther apart.  Whach them burn for thirteen minutes, then blow them out with a forceful breath.
Obsrve the absene of flames.  Accept it.
Repeat this spell for three consecutive nights on the waning moon, 
and every evening, move the candles farther away from eachother.
On the third night, allow the candles burn down all the way.
By this time, they should have reached opposite ends of the altar.
If you feel like crying, this is your last chance.
Mourn now, and be done with it.
Take what is left of this spell -  ashes, candle drippings, and all - to a living body of water. 
 Cast it in and don't look back.
If you dwell on this spell, it cannot come true.
Obsessing over lost loves is a deadly mental habit; it keeps you stuck in the past and locks out the future.