think a reason of the title abuse is simply that giving a title is easy and exciting. What is really difficult is to take the consequences of the title. When a r/t slave calls someone Master, she is not giving a title, she is giving actual power to him on her, and it is that the difficult thing. This happens in the online world too, but the power actually given is of course much smaller: probably the doms lives on the opposite side of the world and she can switch the computer off anytime.
The point is not that he cannot force her to obey: even in the real world the submissive can wake up a morning, decide to take her freedom back and no law will block her. The point is that the control degree that he is able to exert is simply much smaller than in the r/t case, so that "being owned" is less demanding.
Women are known to be complex because they are battling natural versus society ways to what is right. The world is full of choices in defining a woman's role. Sadly, you will find people searching for the extreme such as S/M or B/D into their lifestyle. This in my opinion is a false way of claiming lost natural identity. It is society silent reaction of what is missing in within them. A true masculine male respects his mate especially if she submits to her true feminine ways. Surprisingly, she finds herself seeking fulfillment in surrendering and being taken care of by a man she trusts and loves. It takes a very strong woman to submit to her true desires. A relationship such as this in a marriage is not practiced 50-50 but both giving 100%. A 50-50 can never fulfill two thinking adults long-term. A sub who lives out her natural roles believes ultimate satisfaction comes not by pleasing herself, but from a persistent effort to help her mate become a better person. A strong woman adores herself with a gentle and quiet spirit, creating balance and harmony; a masculine male is drawn to his subs calm self-esteem and therefore the relationship flourishes, keeping the desire burning.
Just what is polyamory anyway? The term poly is defined as many and amory means love, so the quick answer is that polyamory literally means many loves. More precisely, polyamory is the nonpossessive, honest, responsible and ethical philosophy and practice of loving more than one person simultaneously. Polyamory emphasizes consciously choosing how many partners one wishes to be involved with rather than accepting social norms which dictate loving only one person at a time.
Polyamory embraces sexual equality and all sexual orientations towards an expanded circle of spousal intimacy and love. An intimate relationship may or may not include sexuality.
Polyamorists vary a great deal in their attitudes toward casual or recreational sex. Some approve; some (particularly those in polyfidelitous relationships) do not. In any case, polyamory is more about stable, intimate, emotionally committed relationships rather than casual sex.
