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| Hey you guys! It's time for a new topic, and this weeks topic is: |
| Parents Rules reinforced by them, their discipline, and their way of being. now i went around during school, asking people what the thought about rules their parents lay down, and how they are, this is what they had to say: |
| Paula a.k.a. Lauli- "depending on the situation, parents will usually be considered harsh whatever reaction or response they decide to use. even if they are being fair we'll never admit to it. why? because we're kids and we dont want them to be right. we want them to have image of being horrible parents and make it seem like we're in a bad position. odd? yes. reason? none, when is there ever" Christian L- " i totally agree to that crap ^ at times. you see many times parents of some kids are mean at most times. some are mean in overprotectedness or in restricting their kids or not buying them crap. many times at this age which most of us are 15 and we should shave many freedoms by now i mean common its ok if we are 13 but 15 no, no. like sometimes kids (mainly chicks) havent kissed or had a bf cuz-o-parents restrictions. and i bet you that when they were young they were loose as hell (in life) and not so up tight. maybe bcuz ofbad experiences but then again they are then being mean to the children by not allowing them to be free and enjoy life to the fullest! Then when the kids grow up they treat their kids the same way. so, the parents dont harm just the kids, they harm and endanger the goof life and living generations to come!" Antonio- "Parents can at (many) times be overbearing or over react. especially now, they are trying to protect us in this vulnerable age. as for freedoms they come with responsibility. you hafta work for them, and its not easy." Nick- "Parents only do this for our own good. They dont buy us "crap" because we dont earn it sometimes. my dad says I have to get "A"s and "B"s so I can get a game. They are teaching us that we are going to have to learn to control our "wants" and "give" before taking." Christian L- "^ thats so queer!" Jorge C- "Parents didn't want their rules broken they shouldn't have had kids." Robert a.k.a. tall robert- "Well, as for rules inforced by parents go. All they do is fins some trendy way of raising their children, and bring assanine rule into the home. i've had a recent experience with overbearing parents thanks to news reports and news articles about drug troubled teens. I say if they want to sure their kids are safe they be direct with a problems instead of using some technique suggested by a psychologist." Janelis- "I think parent's were made to inforce rules. I agree with this statement (^) 110%. Parents run things in my house. I think that if it weren't that way there would be SPOILED BRATS UP THE ASS!! anyway, i agree with it, and thats it." Chris R a.k.a. little chris a.k.a. "blue"- "I agree with what Christian said up to a certain point. They shouldn't be too protective because once a child leaves their parents, life will be a great smack in the face!" Kristina- "Well I believe that rules are around to be broken so in other words we shouldn't pay attention to what they say." Janty a.k.a. lil buddy- "well i think parents are a good thing because they've been through what we're going through so they like warn us about wut to do and wut not to do but then on other hand times have changed and they don't really know exactly what is it that we're going through so many times they can be wrong, but its not really their fault.Also we kids need to learn from our own mistakes cause we need the wisdom too from experience we cant just rely on something being wrong just cause our parents say it is. we're curious and we need to find out for ourselves and remember no matter how unfair they may seem they're still only trying to do whats best for us." Melanie a.k.a. Melon Head- "parents suck ass! i think they're good sumtimes but lk my dad is the biggest pain in the ass... but i think we SUMTIMES need parents other times... there just there to make u mad... and make u scream and and and... im done" Natalia a.k.a. naty- "Eeveryone has uttered the age-old phrase "I hate my parents" Yes, all parents at one point will piss you off, BUT DONT STRESS. No matter what you do, chances are you'll still be living with them until your 18, so complaining wont help. try to figure out why they're always buggin you. Keep in mind they grew up in a different time and might not understand you too well. It happens to the best of us. Just remember giving them attitude is only gonna make things worse. Try and keep calm, to show ur not a baby. BE RESPONSIBLE. Dont do stupid shit. DO WHAT THEY SAY AND TAKE THEIR ADVICE SOMETIMES. Parents like to know their being listened to. It's an ego booster. got any parents problems email me at natiaunie@hotmail.com |
| Maria a.k.a mava- I have to say i kind of agree with what everyone said. Yes, you do have to listen to your parents, unfortunately. You have to do as they say, as long as your living under their roof, and their feeding you. Parents think they're doing a good job when they give you advice, but hell, at times they don't know what to say. You have to give them a break sometimes. sure they may seem unfair, but maybe one day you will thank them. For now, put up with their bs cause most likely its the only way their gonna see your "Growing up" thx for all ur comments! and special thx to natalia for the idea! |