Peers: We began by discussing some of the reasons that
peer groups have become so important in adolescent life. Those
reasons include:
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the role that industrialization and (subsequent child labor
laws) played, with the resulting segregation of family life from the
work place, and, recently, of the increase of women in the
workforce,
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the age segregation that resulted from mandatory schooling and the
larger school structures that became possible due to the growth of the
cities and suburbs,
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and the increased access that adolescents had to their peers
with the density of the population increasing and access to the family
car,
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Another socio-historical aspect of the growth of our youth-oriented
culture came about as the result of the 'baby boom' following World
War II. Following the war, the society focused on rebuilding
families and the huge number of babies became teens in the fifties, a
time of much greater prosperity. Radio and television had a massive
influence on marketing to this new group of 'customers' and teens had
more time and money for their own interests and activities.
We also discussed the changes in the kind of socialization and training needed to prepare
adolescents for adult life and work skills and roles.
- In the 'good old days'- for hundreds of years and many generations
- society changed very slowly and a child could expect to grow
up to need basically the same skills and knowledge that his/her
parents needed to make a living. Under these conditions, the adults
were the teachers who passed along their wisdom and expertise to the
young. This is referred to as the post-figurative model of
socialization of the young.
- When society is changing more rapidly, as it has in the past 100
years, socialization becomes more co-figurative, where much of
the basic knowledge of how the world works is still passed on by the
adults, but they also learn about the new technology, new skills, and
changes in the social structure form their children. Youth, being less
set in their ways and more open to new ways of thinking, were more
likely to easily acquire the needed skills and information. (This was
seen most markedly in immigrant families, in which the children became
the interpreters, not only of the new language, but of the new ways of
thinking and behaving, for their parents.)
- Now, with the pace of change so rapid that each decade brings new
technological breakthroughs and vast quantities of information,
new social challenges that require new kinds of skills and knowledge,
we are becoming a pre-figurative society, in which the young,
in many situations, are the teachers for the adults. (Three and
four-year olds often know more about how the family computer works
than their parents do!)
1. We discussed the concept of a 'youth culture'. Certainly our society
has commercially responded to the fact that young people have more
discretionary money and time to spend; every 'trend' created by
adolescents is produced and sold back not only to them, but marketed to
all age groups. Little children wear clothing styles originated by
adolescent fads and adults of all ages can be seen adopting aspects of the
so-called 'youth culture'. However, it is a mistake to assume that there
is only one dominant 'youth culture': there are many diverse ones that express
different origins, attitudes, and aspirations.
2. The degree to which adolescents conform to their peer's
expectations, image and behavior varies over the course of adolescence.
Initially, belonging to the peer group is a secure way of moving away from
family, and peer groups of young adolescents promote conformity but as adolescents become more comfortable and
confident with who they are as individuals, they become less vulnerable to peer pressure
(and less likely to exclude those who do not conform).
3. Because today's youth must be prepared for a world that is rapidly
changing, preparation for the adult world must be more universal and less
focused on particular skill sets or specific roles. Therefore adolescents
throughout the society are learning much the same things at the same time.
This, coupled with the shared images of the mass media, means that
adolescents have far more in common today than they did a century ago. In
addition, access to information about the world far beyond the local
communities is easily accessed through the computer.
4. These facts, coupled with the amount of time that adolescents spend
unsupervised by adults and either alone or with their peers, contribute to
the importance of the role of peers in the socialization
process. Once children no longer need moment-to-moment supervision and can
start to congregate without an adult-imposed structure, peer
relationships provide an important setting for psychosocial development
and socialization. In early to mid- adolescence, much of this
socialization process takes place within 'cliques', small groups of
friends that are part of a larger 'crowd' that shares similar interests,
activities and values. There is the athletic 'crowd', the 'nerds' or
'techies', etc; within these crowds, friendships form and groups of
friends (cliques) coalesce. Many times friendships from childhood are
extended to membership in cliques within groups and last beyond these
groups into adult friendships, but often, when neighborhoods or family
connections have been the basis for friendships in childhood, these are
replaced with friends who share more than a neighborhood origin.
5. We discussed the changing makeup of peer relationships as a child
moves into and through adolescence.
crowds, cliques and friendships over the course of
adolescence.
- Whereas children spend a lot of time with peers in adult-organized
activities, adolescents spend increasing amounts of time with peers
without adult supervision
- Children's peer groups are highly sex-segregated, and, at first,
adolescent groups are also same sex groups, but as they grow older,
the groups become mixed sex groups and then evolve into smaller groups
of couples.
- During adolescence, large vaguely defined crowds, which serve
as reference groups, are formed. Certain stereotypes of style,
behavior, etc. identify each 'crowd' as a particular social context,
as separate from other 'crowds'. Early in adolescence, conformity to
the norms of a particular crowd is more important than later in
adolescence, when crowds become less important in an adolescent's
self-image and the crowds themselves become more permeable.
- Cliques are smaller subgroups of a crowd in which the individuals
are friends who share activities and spend more time together.
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We discussed the mall observation assignment.
Also, THINK about the
'pros and cons' of being popular and unpopular for further discussion. |
6. Popularity is an interesting aspect of peer culture: who is 'in',
who is 'out' and why has been studied by social scientists extensively and
they have found that 'popular' adolescents are those who are friendly,
self-confident and have good social, while unpopular adolescents tend to
be aggressive, hostile or withdrawn. The class discussed the negative
aspects of being popular also: it can 'go to your head', you can learn to
manipulate people, and the popular or 'in group' can be very cruel and
harsh in rejecting those that are different. On the other hand, being
'different' in a way that leaves you out of a 'popular' group can give you
strengths, in which you have learned to deal with the situation
positively. However, statistically, unpopular youths tend to be more at
risk for psychosocial problems.
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