IB HUMAN SEXUALITY
CULTURAL & SOCIAL CONSTRUCTION OF SEXUALITY
Petula Ho
Mon 23-09-02
COURSE OBJECTIVES
- Western theories and their inadequacies
- Our identity as cosmopolitan HK Chinese
- Proliferation of talks
- Co-construction of knowledge with students
- The education of desires in HK
HUMAN SEXUALITY COURSE FOR MED STUDENTS
- To provide students with a preliminary understanding of the interdisciplinary nature of the study of sex and its relationship with medicine
- To enable students to formulate the sexual problems of their patients objectively and effectively
- Knowledge & techniques in managing particular types of sexual problems and diseases (by the respective speciality & in post-graduate teachings)
Human Sexuality/Sociology of Sexuality (for Social Sciences, Arts and Business students)
- Lecture 1: The vagina dialogue (Ho Sik Ying & Chang Sea Ling)
- The Vagina Monologues
(Eve Ensler, 1998)
- V day (Feb. 14)
- V Day Fund - An international movement (reclaiming the body and fighting against sexual violence)
- A college campaign
The vagina interviews
- What do you call your "down there"?
- If your vagina got dressed, what would it wear?
- If your vagina could talk, what would it say?
- If you have to say something to him/her, what would you say?
Human Sexuality/Sociology of Sexuality
- Performance of the Vagina Monologues by Dr. Chang Sea Ling (Video clippings)
- The vagina workshop (p. 43- 50)
- Vagina fact (p. 51)
- Class response (Social Sciences)
- Class response (medicine)
- Compare the response of the 2 classes
What do these words mean? Why are they so unfamiliar?
Promiscuity
Pornography
Cross-dress (drag)
Fetishism (obsession with objects)
Celibacy (no sex)
S&M (why so popular)
Debate
- What do these words mean? Why are they so unfamiliar (language problem vs. the lack of exposure to sex and the language for speaking about it)
- Why do we have to talk about sex in public (for confrontation and analysis/ talking cure vs. silence as resistance, talk -> no knowledge for control)
- Why so embarrassed: to private vs. regulation of women's sexual aesthetics
- What is pornography (nudity as a form of art)
Vagina/clitoris
- What do the medical students know about them?
- What do they mean to you?
- Where did you learn the words?
- Do they have other names?
- What did you (or your parents) call them when you were small?
- What are they in Chinese?
G-Spot (Clitoris)
Virginity as a disciplinary practice to regulate women
Orgasm = ejaculation
Vaginal orgasm - defines women's need to terms of the needs of men
Clitoral orgasm - to reclaim female pleasure
What is the Clitoris?
- The clitoris is pure in purpose.
- It is the only organ in the body designed purely for pleasure.
- The clitoris is simply a bundle of nerves: 8000 nerve fibres.
- That’s a higher concentration of nerve fibres …, and it is twice … twice … twice the number in the penis.
What are we talking about?
- "My vagina is a shell, a round pink tender shell, opening and closing, closing and opening. My vagina is a flower, an eccentric tulip, the centre acute and deep, the scent delicate, the petals gentle but sturdy.
- "I’ve lost my clitoris" It’s gone
- "It was me, the essence of me.
- "It was the doorbell to my house and the house itself.
- "I didn’t have to find it. I had to be it.
- "Be it. Be my clitoris.
Embarrassment and disgust
- Disciplines through aesthetics
- The social and cultural forces that shape our experience of the aesthetics
- The look, shape, colour and smell of the genitals
- Secretions & other discharges (menstrual blood) are associated with negative aesthetic evaluation
- The social regulation of women’s bodies
The vagina messages
- To look at & see our body parts
- To understand our bodies – a "grounded-in-the body" way of knowing and acting
- To talk about it (use the proper terms)
- To explore our desires (Don’t be afraid of knowing it)
- To express them (*open verbal communication)
- To believe in ourselves (see what we see)
Understanding sex: Sexology
- The science of sex
- A medical discourse
- Typology of sexual desires and behaviours
- Codify sexual behaviours as disease (e.g. erectile dysfunction, vaginismus)
- Contributions
- Problems of quantifying and classifying forms of sexual stimulation & desires (Bristow, 1997)
Contribution of sexology
- It has played a major role in enabling sex to be debated more widely and seriously at all levels of society.
- At times, it provides useful technical advice on how to solve sexual problems at both the emotional and physical level.
Understanding sex - "Girls’ Talk" & "Fellowship
- Personal history: relationships, struggles
- Recognition of desire vs. averting illegitimate desires
- Desire (reciprocity) – S.L.
- Principles (self-identity & relationship) – S.Y.
- Happy person vs. good person
- The tension within oneself, between self and others
From "Girls’ Talk" to Counter Culture
- Proliferation of "talk" and desires
- Confrontation with self and analysis
- Alternative knowledge (what the experts don’t know)
- Topics: Girls Talk à Women’s sexuality à male desires (a "new good man")
- The multiplicity of desires (sexual minorities)
ANTHROPOLOGY
- What is sexual in one context is not in another (eg. Bare breasts)
- Sexual meanings are socially learned
- Culture (including science) tries to 'naturalise' sexual acts + values: heterosexuality, monogamy, reproduction
- Sexual attitudes are different across cultures (eg. Mobasa: homosexuality is acceptable, normal)
- NO universal standards for defining normality and abnormality
- We should question the claim of such standards and explore underlying assumptions and values
- In understanding the scientific study of sexuality, anthropologists try to understand how categories of typologies emerge - what are they? Who classified them? How and why?
- Anthropology: A cross-cultural studies of human cultures and behaviours
- Political philosophy: To study how categories and typologies emerge and the social context in which they become popular or useful
- To unravel larger social, cultural, historical forces that shape desires
- There is no "objective" reality or the view from nowhere, everyone is "positional".
- The normality and abnormality of a particular sexual behaviour, identity, or style depends largely in the interpretative lens through which it is observed.
- There is a need to understand sexuality and sexual norms in its specific historical context.
SOCIAL SCIENTIFIC UNDERSTANDING OF SEXUALITY
- The study of men and woman as sexed beings/ sexual beings and their expressions
- Beyond morality
- Unravel larger social, cultural, historical forces that shape desires
- Anthropology: cross-cultural studies of human cultures and behaviour
- The relationship between social wk and sociology
- The contribution of political philosophy –historical constructedness (contingencies) of identity categories
A re-thinking of the vagina messages
- To look at & see our body parts
- To understand our bodies – a "grounded-in-the body" way of knowing and acting
- To talk about it (use the proper terms)
- To explore our desires (Don’t be afraid of knowing it)
- To express them (*open verbal communication)
- To believe in ourselves (see what we see)
Beyond the vagina-clitoris debate
- 2 codes ("Western" and "Chinese")
- New ideals of "proper femininity"
- Explicit speech vs. non-verbal communications
- Medical language vs. swear words
- Genital pleasure vs. Good sex as total experience
Same organ, same orgasm?
The uses of the erotic: the erotic as power (Audre Lorde, 1984)
- The boundaries between the erotic vs. political, creative, and everyday activities.
- Desire as a creative force for revolutionary change.
- We have been taught to suspect this resource.
- The erotic as a sign of female inferiority & needs to be suppressed in order for us to be strong.
- The power of our unexpressed or unrecognised feeling.
- The sense of satisfaction & completion that comes from sharing deeply any pursuit with another person.
- The sharing of joy – physical, emotional, psychic, or intellectual – lessens the threat of their difference