Matters of the Heart
When it comes to these things, matters of the heart that is, we need to be especially careful at what we say or do. For if we are to make a false move then we shall consider everything lost in everything that we say and everything that we do. For when we make that wrong move we are the only one to blame. We must begin over again... from square one... building from the dried sand on a dry summer day. When we think that we have it all figured out and back to the way it was it may fall apart, since there is no water, and probably will because like water holds sand together, trust is what holds the friendship or relationship together. When the trust is gone then you might as well say chao to the friendship or relationship. Chances are that it's gone too.