ODE TO TEDDY BEAR

Teddy, I've been bad again,
My Mommy told me so;
I'm not quite sure what I did wrong,
But I thought that you might know.

When I woke up this morning,
I knew that she was mad;
Cause she was crying awful hard,
And yelling at my dad.

I tried my best to be real good,
And do just what she said;
I cleaned my room all by myself,
I even made my bed.

But I spilled milk on my good shirt,
When she yelled at me to hurry;
And I guess she didn't hear me,
When I told her I was sorry.

Cause she hit me awful hard, you see,
And called me funny names;
And told me I was really bad,
And I should be ashamed!

When I said, "I love you, Mommy,"
I guess she didn't understand;
Cause she yelled at me to shut my mouth.
Or I'd get smacked again.

So I came up here to talk to you,
Please tell me what to do;
Cause I really love my Mommy,
And I know she loves me, too.

And I don't think my Mommy means,
To hit me quite so hard;
I guess sometimes, grown ups forget.
How really big they are!

So Teddy, I wish you were real,
And you weren't just a bear;
Then you could help me find a way.
To tell Mommies every where.

To please try hard to understand.
How sad it makes us feel;
Cause the outside pain soon goes a way,
But the inside never heals!

And if we could make them listen,
Maybe then they'd understand;
So other children just like me,
Wouldn't have to hurt again.

But for now, I guess I'll hold you tight,
And pretend the pain's not there;
I know you'd never hurt me,
So Goodnight, Teddy Bear!

Are You Abused?


Abuse takes many different forms.
I urge you recognize the signs and,
if you are being abused, to seek help before it is too late for you and/or your children.

Physical Abuse


Does your partner:
Hit, slap, shove, choke or kick you or your children?
Threaten or hurt you with a weapon?
Throw objects at or restrain you?
Abandon you or lock you out?
Hurt you when you're sick or pregnant?

Sexual Abuse


Does your partner:

Force you to have relations?
Force you into unwanted practices?
Force you to have relations with others?

Emotional Abuse


Does your partner do things that shame, ridicule or insult you like saying:
You're stupid, fat, ugly, etc.
You can't do anything right.
You'll never get a job.
You're an unfit parent.
You don't deserve anything.
Who'd want you? Or, does your partner

Threaten or hurt your child or pet?
Forbid you to work or have money?
Accuse you of having affairs?
Keep you from family or friends?
Confuse you with promises, lies?
Take your keys, damage your car?
Take or destroy important papers?

Call for help before it's too late!!!!!!!!!



FRAN'S BUNKER




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