Cunnilingus the right way!
Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because there are too few of you out there. And I'm not the only woman who says this. Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out.
When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she knows it. She won't even tell her girlfriends about it or that guy will become the most popular man in town. So, remember, most guys can fuck, and those who can usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good head, he's got it made.
Most women are shy about
their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed
with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her
which you're petting and
stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it. Now look at it again.
Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now
spread the tops of her pussy up
until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have
different sized dicks. It
doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is
more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.
Approach her pussy slowly.
Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her
thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue.
Come dangerously close to her
pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease
where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit
without pressing down on it to
further excite her. After you've done this to the point where your
lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of
you closer to her, then put your
lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands.
Everything you do with a
woman you're about to eat must be done gently. Tongue-fuck her. This feels
devine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to
her clit. Check it out. See if
her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so,
lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue
up tot he top of her slit and
feel for her clit. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if
you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it.
Lick hard now and press into
her skin. Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against
the clit, hood covered or not.
Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder.
When you sense she's getting
up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into
your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can
handle it, begin to suck
harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis
into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her Hang on, and
keep your hot mouth on her
clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: "Don't stop. Don't
ever stop!" There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with sucking dick
for women, this is something
worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who's a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like
nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him.
But back to your pussy
eating session...There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's
pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she's enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, cuming or after. She'll really like
it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another
extremely sensitive area
at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're fucking her.
Well, since your dick is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the
fucking. Take two
fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make
sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a
little faster. Fuck her with
them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her
breathing. She'll let you know what to do. If you're sucking her clit and
finger-fucking her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would
be giving her with your
dick alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this.
If there's any doubt, check
her out for symptoms.
Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only
when she's having an orgasm. Y our girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her
symptoms and you'll be a more
sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes,
don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from
the first orgasm, press your
tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top.
Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too,
gently though, things are
extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you'll get some
multiple orgasms this way.
A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms to? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her. The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her cum, made her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.