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Domaris says: Uncurl your fingers, if you've curled them, and slowly pull out.

Domaris says: If she wants you to be quicker about it, she can help the process by bearing down with her vaginal muscles.

Domaris says: A -little- bit of blood can be normal. A lot of blood is not. Bright red blood (particularly a lot of it) is not. Try to find out where it's coming from.

Domaris says: As a side note, it is possible that the intense physical reaction from fisting can provoke her period to start a bit early, particularly if she's close that time already.

Lavicka asks: ?

Domaris says: If the bleeding doesn't stop, take her to the ER. Your partner's health is always of utmost importance. A little bit of embarrassment when telling the doctor what happened is nothing compared to that.

Domaris asks: Lavicka?

Spivey nods

Lavicka asks: do you know if having an episiotomy scar can be a hinderance in this activity?

sherry listens

Domaris says: I know that there are lots of women who have given birth who enjoy being fisted.

robbie raises her hand

Lavicka nods, 'but not all women who have given birth have scars'

Lavicka says: lucky bitches

Domaris says: My suggestion would be to watch the scar area the first time or two to make sure the tissue isn't being strained - it might just take some extra time for the skin to get used to the stretch.

Domaris nods.

Lavicka nods

Domaris asks: robbie?

robbie says: just a comment - had an episiotomy, no fisting problem. (but my scar may not be major either.)

Domaris nods. thank you!

Lavicka nods, 'yeah, i know some are worse than others... like mine is a nightmare'

Lavicka says: but thats me :)

robbie nodsnods

Domaris says: Scar tissue isn't as flexible as normal tissues, but it can stretch somewhat given time, I believe.

Domaris asks: Does anyone else have any questions?

Domaris says: That's the end of the formal part of tonight's talk.

Lavicka asks: ?

Domaris asks: Lavicka?

Lavicka says: i know this is gonna sound really silly....

Lavicka asks: but have you ever heard anyone mention getting their hand stuck??

Domaris grins.

Kethry asks: ?

robbie giggles

Domaris says: I haven't, no.

Lavicka says: just seems to me, thats not the kinda thing id want to have to explain at the er :)

Lavicka says: ok, this is good :)