jealousy

Lavicka says: tonights discussion is open forum... meaning, i expect to hear from you guys :)

Rebecca says: Daylight's burning, Lavicka. ;)

Prophet asks: you mean you aren't going to tell us how to?

Lavicka says: i don't have any notes to go by, so i expect to hear some ideas on how to deal with this from YOU

Lavicka asks: first thing we need to determine is, what is jealousy?

Lavicka asks: is it a feeling you get? a need to make things different? does it mean youre too attached and need help?

Lavicka asks: maybe i should first ask if anyone here has ever been jealous? or had someone else be jealous of something in their relationship?

Lavicka says: hi crimson

Crimson says: Hi hi

Lavicka looks around at all the stone faces

xaveria has had someone jealous because of her activities

Crimson asks: Ever been jealous? Even me ..

xaveria says: and someone tried to take my then boyfriend... and others thought i would explode...

Lavicka has had terrible bouts with jealousy

Prophet asks: my mom always told me they were jealous when they picked on me... does that count?

Rebecca doesn't get jealous. I'm a people-person and play well with others.

Lavicka says to Prophet: sure :)

xaveria mmmmmmmms.... maybe

Prophet smiles at rebecca... yes.. you play very well

xaveria says: hi smaid... smiles

Lavicka grins at rebecca, 'good... then when we get to fixing jealousy, maybe you can share how you do that with us?'

xaveria says: this other girl was after my then-boyfriend...

xaveria says: and would flirt with him in front of me...

smaid says: hi xav :)

Lavicka says: hi smaid :)

xaveria asks: so, one day... i arrived where we usually played cards, etc... and asked... where is he?

xaveria says: and all the men were... mmmmm... oh... we haven't seen him

Lavicka says: ok.. let me ask you this...

Lavicka asks: is it wrong to be jealous?

xaveria asks: but i knew better... so i laughed and said.. okay... where did she take him?

Lavicka asks: is jealousy ever justified?

xaveria says: since he married me...

Lavicka grins at xav

xaveria knew he had good taste... and she was a...

Rebecca says: I don't think jealousy is justified.

Rebecca says: To me, it is a wasted emotion.

Rebecca says: No one can change another.

Crimson nods... exactly.