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Lavicka thwaps spivey

LadyDomina asks: Is she going to respond to you immediately as a dominant as if you where wearing a clean shirt, leather vest and were clean?

Spivey says: most likely not

LadyDomina says: When I play with my husband at home, I am often wearing panties and a t shirt.

LadyDomina says: But he KNOWS I'm his dominant.

Spivey nods

LadyDomina says: What we're discussing here is how to get someone to feel submissive to you right away.

LadyDomina says: And for that, perception is VERY important.

Lavicka says: first thing anyone is going to notice is how you look, not how you act. they notice that even before you open your mouth

Spivey nods and sits down

LadyDomina asks: So... how would you dress for that sweet young thing?

Spivey says: I see what you're getting at

LadyDomina says: It doesn't make you any more or less dominant, but it gives the person you are with a perception of dominance.

Lavicka nods and smiles

LadyDomina says: Pordommes learn to be good at this. We have to. We may never have more than that one appointment to get that client to see us as dominant.

LadyDomina says: So we learn to wear the boots, the spike heels, the leather, the latex, the fetish wear.

Lavicka says: its what they expect

LadyDomina says: We learn to set up the dungeon with mood lighting, with music, with various scents.

LadyDomina says: It's all to influence perception.

Spivey nods

Falina says: I know I am late

Falina asks: but can I ask how you got started in this line of work?

LadyDomina says: A prodomme can have all of this down and be a totally lousy dominant, but the client will still perceive her as a domme.

LadyDomina asks: Falina, how what? How do we influence them?

Falina says: How did you get started in this line of work

Falina says: as a ProDomme

LadyDomina says: Well, I was a lifestyle dominant, and I needed some extra cash. And I jokingly said to a friend, I wish I could become a prodomme.

Lavicka grins

Falina grins

LadyDomina says: He knew a woman who ran a prodomme house, and she actually was interested in hiring an older domme.

Lavicka says: i should have such luck :)

LadyDomina says: So.. I got my start.

Lavicka says: then again, id have to be domme for that to work :)

Falina laughs at Lav