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Prostitution
For a little background info on this chick... she is a sweet, innocent, and clueless 21 yr old. To my knowledge she has never had a boyfriend, and from various conversations I have gathered she is still a virgin. She's not bad looking at all, has a good personality and good outlook on life... but, I don't know how to say it nicely... but, she has trouble seeing the larger picture of life... meaning, she can basically focus on one thing at a time.
Anyways, back to the subject at hand... I purposefully had the nice guy conversation with her to get a different perspective on things. I asked her why girls say they want a 'nice guy' but yet they never take one as a boyfriend, and are nice guys just another term for loser.... she responded with " Would you say that all girls are bitches?"
I said " No... maybe hypocritical, but not bitches"
(after briefly explaining what a hypocrite was, we continued)
" Girls just don't know what they want... I don't know what I want"
"I'll agree to that... women say men are indesicive... men are indesicive, yes... but most of the time when men choose something, the woman disagrees, and we have to choose again... to save the trouble of having to decide again, if the woman makes the descion, its cool with us... that's just conditioning that women have done to a man"
"That made perfect sense... but why do girls do that you think?"
"You're the girl... you tell me."
"I dunno...."
Clearly, I am going to have to have this type of conversation with someone else again, to gain more insight... but it is puzzling, why women say they want a nice guy but choose otherwise, and why they can't recognize that they are as indesicive about things as us guys.